Yes! I always tell my friends it's okay if you need to sit in the dark right now. You just need to be okay with the fact that I'm going to sit with you, with a hand crank flashlight if that is what is needed. We don't have to talk about it, but you shouldn't sit alone with it.
"Don't be _____" is the worst advice you can give someone who is going through bad times. It's much better to shut up and allow the person to process their feelings.
Only add to the situation if they initiate it. Otherwise just being there does the most important thing, namely telling them that they are not alone, without adding to the stress.
And if they want to talk about, you're there to listen.
it’s also important to remind them verbally every day tho.. that ur going nowhere, no matter what, no matter how hard it gets. you won’t abandon them. a lot of ppl do fear this during rough times & need reassurance..
I always feel bad when my only response can be an awkward “man that sucks” but it’s always an accurate statement, and not some hollow platitude. People don’t expect you to solve their problems, mostly they just want someone to hear them. Be there for folks.
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His ear yesterday and he’s not happy with me! Hates the Cone of Shame.
Is he still angry at you?
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Glad you didn’t disappear for a while Jessi 💫, though I understand how a break can be healthy!
If we can`t help each other nothing else really matters.
Means the world to the one healing!💕
(No, not this kind of bear.)
Well put 😉
Love your profile pic. Hairy Pawter is such a handsome gent. 🐈
That's amazing thank you 🫶
Only add to the situation if they initiate it. Otherwise just being there does the most important thing, namely telling them that they are not alone, without adding to the stress.
And if they want to talk about, you're there to listen.
Great post👍
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"Thanks, just don't tell the vet."
(by you) the collar can be off.
(Don't tell kitty on me)
What a wonderful photo
Thks bunches
Made me smile💖💖😁💖💖