He didn't change his mind. He lied to her thinking he would be able to change hers.
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He’s a lying, controlling jerk and he won’t change.
That's a boundary. Boundaries are healthy.
But wtf he won't do this thing he promised to do and means more risk, pain, work, expense on her part??? That's a shitty partner.
I’d worry he would think that getting pregnant would “fix her” and make her want to be a parent.
So he gets the vasectomy and proves it to her. Or she should walk.
I also went back to work the next day. It really wasn't a problem, I had pain and tenderness for about a week, and in two weeks the surgical site was completely healed.
There are no downsides with his.
I live in a big city and Urology was super simple to get an appointment for.
He is a coward and she should never be intimate with him until he does the vasectomy.
I mean I didn’t go into details how it would be done or how much of a PITA it was to reverse.
But mine did say it could be reversed later on. He also warned me it could naturally reverse. But the way he was doing it with lasers makes that unlikely.
According to him this part toy is safer and more effective/long term.
It's more than a vasectomy, but I'd deal with five times the recovery for the incredible peace of mind it has brought.
I don’t know what he felt. But if it was what I did it was more of a “full” feeling that quickly went away after a few days.
Then and only after the test confirmed would I be infertile.
Plus, you've got a reason to take a few days off and laze around.
Plus, plus, your wife will probably help you prep for the procedure if you ask her nicely...
He knows how easy it is for him.
But I also think he actually wants kids and is afraid to tell her.
All the baseless excuses are making me think he's trying to baby trap her. She should divorce him and find someone that's actually honest.
that's horrifying to think of in its own right o.0
Sorry. It was a video if him getting confronted about it.
I don’t know that he’s actually proposed it in legislature he’s talked about the goal.
1. No sex
2. Get your tubes tied but don’t tell the next guy bc turns out this ended up being a good test of character and you can use it on the next guy. Also ligations can fail
3. Leave. Divorce.
He doesn't want to go through with it in case they break up and he finds someone else who wants kids.