Break up. This is the type of dude that will dig to find new ways to punish their partners. - ThreadSky

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Break up. This is the type of dude that will dig to find new ways to punish their partners.

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nextgenraisa.bsky.social•13 hours ago

Why even have any additional texting with this jerk.

paperdragon77.bsky.social•14 hours ago

I’ve had manic text streams but then I also started taking meds because I’m bi-polar so, maybe he should look into this being a health issue.

nollyumpkim.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I really wish there was an update. I want to know if she told him to kick rocks.

auggiebusch.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Break up.

tvldiva.bsky.social•13 hours ago

TBH- Dallas traffic does suck but so does his anger management.
This is what most arguments sound like to me. One with anger issues, the other actively engaging with someone having a meltdown and both poor communications.
Both need therapy and both need to be single.

sosammie77.bsky.social•13 hours ago

Geezus. Don’t even be there IF he arrives. Tell work your ex won’t return your keycard. It’s gone.

nowhere.bsky.social•11 hours ago

I appreciate how she handled it. Not letting him reframe anything, focusing on his irrational, emotional, unkind responses.

But I'm not sure she'll get her keycard back...

nowhere.bsky.social•10 hours ago

Also he wanted to deceive her into thinking he's a better mate than he is—"I'm the kind of boyfriend who would..."—and is just mad his bluff got called

elisabethe.bsky.social•14 hours ago

'next time'? Oh honey, don't let there be a next time! Get your keycard back and dump him. He's already whining about you ruining his day so go ahead and actually ruin it by kicking him to the curb.

miladymigraine.bsky.social•8 hours ago

Ah yes, passive aggression. You can get another key card. Dump him.

jrblount.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Exactly, I have a family member like this guy and it's just a power play for him. He'll moan and groan about this favor, act like the victim, and hold it over her head until he dies. Don't be with anyone who thinks doing things for you a "waste of time".

xxpetergriffinxx.bsky.social•11 hours ago

Ah frickin’ sweet

jrblount.bsky.social•11 hours ago

3k0bolds.bsky.social•14 hours ago

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

fairyqueenofbs.bsky.social•13 hours ago

Why? WHY??

l0stsole.bsky.social•8 hours ago

Run, run fast run hard.

kateration.bsky.social•12 hours ago

Hooooooooly shit. It drives me crazy when women stay with shitty men and complain about them constantly but refuse to leave them. He gave her herpes and lied about his mom being dead. What does it take to get through to someone that this person is bad for them???

crary.bsky.social•12 hours ago

I mean, I absolutely understand how hard it can seem (and sometimes actually be) to upend your entire life. But my sweet heaven.

kateration.bsky.social•12 hours ago

She says they don’t live together though. She has her own place. So I get it if you’re financially tied to someone and it makes it harder to escape.

crary.bsky.social•12 hours ago

Yeah, this is why I made that distinction between seem hard and actually be hard. I completely agree with you. Her impediments are much more mental than practical.

cinnamonbite.bsky.social•14 hours ago

I will never understand the constant back & forth.

Is she a doormat or is this fake? 🤷🏼‍♀️

abandonthought.bsky.social•13 hours ago

Sometimes there's an instinct to persist because you can't fucking believe they're being THAT ridiculous. Also a hope that maaaaybe if you word it right they'll realize they're being a tool.

But guys like this never do. They're never wrong. It's always your fault. Only thing you can do is leave.

nicoladauthor.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Immature dudes like this turn EVERYTHING into full drama llama, it wouldn't matter what she did or said, she'll always be wrong. Dump his pathetic ass.

kathwertheim.bsky.social•13 hours ago

She now sees who he is. He’s always going to be playing games, like here where he offers to do something expecting her to say no, and then resenting when she accepts the offer he freely made. He’s an SOB, it’s over.

abby-normal.bsky.social•14 hours ago

How is he not already her EX boyfriend.

anaesgo.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Well, she forgot her work card at his place. I guess she is waiting to get the card back? This is the kind of dude that would keep the card just to screw her.

abby-normal.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Fair, but she also says "next time don't offer" Let's hope the between the lines there is: "next time [you have a girlfriend because you're about to be single] don't offer"

anaesgo.bsky.social•13 hours ago

There are so many red flags there: he is fuming because she accepted his offer. He doesn't want her to have his house code/key and I suspect he didn't want her to go over that specific day. Smthing to hide? So he is angry he isn't home 'alone' and the only way she doesn't come over is him 'helping'.

laundry-ghost.bsky.social•9 hours ago

Ooh this is a really good point I hadn’t thought of when I first saw this damn

lizalbin.bsky.social•14 hours ago

I didn’t apply that to their relationship. I might’ve said something like it, if I meant “don’t offer if you can’t offer freely”

millie29.bsky.social•12 hours ago

But he also refused to give her the code to get it herself so that’s really controlling. Changing codes is easy to do

anaesgo.bsky.social•12 hours ago

That's why I'm sure he's got something to hide.

millie29.bsky.social•10 hours ago

🎯🎯🎯🎯

whereismy240.bsky.social•7 hours ago

palecur.bsky.social•14 hours ago

'next time' girl what fuckin next time are you talking about you gotta visit the planet of Yeetabro and soon

decker24.bsky.social•12 hours ago

🤣🤣🤣

tetrapod.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Someone get buddy a few more nails, he seems to really like putting himself up on that cross

decker24.bsky.social•12 hours ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

bellamusica76.bsky.social•12 hours ago

If you look at her post and comment history reddit has been telling her to run the fuck away for weeks. The worst part is her SISTER set her up this trach can, knowing he was a trash can.

foolish-mortal.bsky.social•9 hours ago

Wonder if her sister was also raised to be a doormat. That would explain a lot. I've known people who have this like engrained learned impulse of "I HAVE to have a man - any man."

bellamusica76.bsky.social•8 hours ago

It's not a far fetched thought.

robinhoodcosplay.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Christ alive... that's one of my exes to a tee.
DUMP HIM. HOLY SHIT DUMP HIM!!!

rdelacy.bsky.social•11 hours ago

This is so horrible. Clearly he only offered to help her so he could use it as an excuse to be mean to her. She needs to cut this asshole loose.

bete-noire.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Men, if you have friends like this guy ... rip into them and punish them for being a horrible human being.

Don't let behavior like this become normalized amongst your friends. Let guys like this know that treating people like this come with negative social consequences.

lizalbin.bsky.social•13 hours ago

Assuming that this is a true story, he’s just awful. He initially lied and told her his mother is dead.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/comments/1izxhp7/comment/mf6vbf3/

chamomileandcosmos.bsky.social•13 hours ago

The poster's history is horrific, I hope she gets out of there!

lizalbin.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Dump him now.

He’s nasty.

At least bears don’t insult you before they eat you.

#BearPlease

daiana10.bsky.social•14 hours ago

holy shit.
I'd break up right the moment I got the card from him.
bye bye asshole

millie29.bsky.social•12 hours ago

I wouldn’t. I’d wait for him to reach out then tell him very nicely that he’s right about everything and you’ve decided to let him go to be with someone better.😂😂😂

kateration.bsky.social•12 hours ago

Apparently she made posts over the last year about how he also gave her herpes and lied about his mom being dead. I don’t know what it will take to get it through her head that she should leave this dude.

millie29.bsky.social•10 hours ago

Poor girl. Some of us were raised from birth to accept this in order to survive. It’s very hard to throw off that conditioning all at once.

She’s asking for help and getting feedback and that’s a good start

kateration.bsky.social•10 hours ago

This man seems very violent. I hope she gets rid of him before it’s too late. He’s already infected her with this virus. I hope she gets WY from him.

craftwitch.bsky.social•13 hours ago

He’s an abusive asshole who will blame literally everything on her

pandamom.bsky.social•10 hours ago

There doesn’t need to be a next time.

roguegeneticist.bsky.social•13 hours ago

I bet there is something (or someone) at his place he doesn’t want her to see.
He will make it “her fault” and claim she’s “intrusive and doesn’t trust him”
Run!

toneg99.bsky.social•1 hour ago

Awww she ruined his date with other woman

carina-amyth.bsky.social•14 hours ago

Don't offer to help someone, if you really don't want to help them. I hope she gets rid of him.

millie29.bsky.social•12 hours ago

Dump him.
Ghost. Then when he wonders why, tell him sweetly that you e thought it over and realize just how right he is. How you know he deserves better so you’re breaking up so he can have that 😂

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