As a good wife I would encourage his emotional growth and respect his bodily autonomy by allowing him to deal with his emotions and handle his own physical needs. He's welcome.
I first saw this a year or two ago on Twitter and it was a TikTok of some dude asking this exact same question. It might have even been on Aubrey's Twitter page, I don't remember.
As a man who cooks, what the actual fuck. These women should be telling him to eat what he's given or fend for himself, that's what the women in my family would do, and they would be 1000% correct. The fuck kind of man babies are out there now jfc, I refuse to let my son become this way
Unless the meal contained something he was allergic to, he could eat it, make himself whatever he wanted, or go to bed hungry. While he was choosing one of those options, he could also take a moment to grow the fuck up.
Why am I am not surprised about the boomer, who aged in dog years giving such terrible "advice"?
Well, because a similar looking man gave me once "advice" that women should NOT wear glasses, because it gives us women a stern look and intimidates from approaching women.
As a "good wife" I don't infantilise my husband even if he's behaving like a child. He knows where the kitchen is, and how it works. He'd survive. He'd better, because if he had a tantrum and walked away from food I'd cooked, it's be the last time I ever cooked for him.
A good rule in a marriage is " Never let the sun go down on your anger."
Work it out before you go to bed.
However, if someone is acting like a spoiled brat, don't reward that behavior. It will just encourage them.
Beloved is an adult and doesn't pull this crap. But hypothetically, have dinner (or maybe give myself a treat and order sushi) stream some entertaining shows, get puppers on couch and go to sleep hugging them. 🙂
You would think dudes might object to this answer because it portrays them as toddlers getting a treat after a tantrum, but they call this wifely submission.
(It is actually hilarious that so many men expect to be revered as the 'man of the house' while acting like a threenager...)
I will never understand why some dudes are allergic to cooking. Cooking is fun! I like spicing up some meat and veggies while watching a dinosaur documentary on my phone! Helps me unwind.
Fuck, the layers of things going on here that piss me off.
Though it all boils down to an abusive manchild who forces work protocol and berates at the most minor infraction. Anyone who actually does this deserves all the loneliness
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Everyone and their best friend would know about the 200 lb baby tactics, how good dinner was, and that I had eaten two servings and he got none.
Well, because a similar looking man gave me once "advice" that women should NOT wear glasses, because it gives us women a stern look and intimidates from approaching women.
I think not killing him in his sleep should demonstrate the appropriate amount of restraint.
Work it out before you go to bed.
However, if someone is acting like a spoiled brat, don't reward that behavior. It will just encourage them.
(It is actually hilarious that so many men expect to be revered as the 'man of the house' while acting like a threenager...)
Leave a little note how to operate the microwave so that he can reheat it.
If he wants to throw a wobbly and go to bed hungry, LET HIM. And stop cooking for him. He might just learn SOME FUCKING MANNERS.
Though it all boils down to an abusive manchild who forces work protocol and berates at the most minor infraction. Anyone who actually does this deserves all the loneliness
But then again, he's not an overgrown badly raised toddler, so...