rather than trying to suss out what genitals i have politely by asking me “afab? amab?” i’d rather someone actually just go “cock? pussy?”
like i promise those words will not kill you and are like x10 less offensive.
but also maybe don’t ask about my genitals unless it’s relevant
like i promise those words will not kill you and are like x10 less offensive.
but also maybe don’t ask about my genitals unless it’s relevant
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why do you caaaaaaaare? people be normal for five seconds i stg
I don't know if there really is a way to ask me at this point in a way that I'm okay with
I mean I don't mind talking about having had a vaginoplasty but it depends on the social context and who I'm talking to
OTOH
Being asked in a whisper "So will I be knuckles deep in you, or taking you into my mouth later?" is kind of sending me
It's "how can I bully you?"
* confusing cis people who ask me if I got “the surgery”
😮💨
i think i would likely be so stunned i’d say the wrong one. and if that prompted a follow up question, that’s when i’d get weird?
Me: exhausted of this "What, are we gonna fuck‽"
Him: flustered, confused, and finally done with the topic.