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🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ she/her; bi/pan; Australia -> Awabakal Messy mélange of queerness Unofficial hype-slut for 𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘳 𝘖𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 (listen to Strike Me Down EP!!)
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Lol gay (Seriously, she's the sweetest goddamn human, and I tear up thinking that the universe led us to each other 🥹😭)

OMG AND SHE'S A TOP!! Chat, I am *smitten*

So this sweetheart, this goddess, this ethereal being of light, gets me a goddamn Squishmallow with MY GODDAMN NAME ON IT for our Valentine's Day "Not a Valentine's date". It was so sweet and beautiful and thoughtful, I almost cried 🥹

Was listening to an interview with Richard Seymour this weekend and he was asked if he thought technology inherently leans right and he said "it leans stupid which leans right"

How is it 2025, and I'm having to tell a colleague that 'poofter' isn't a word he should be calling anyone. ...let alone one of his grandkids.

Had a first date with another trans woman last night. For two quite neurodivergent people, we had no trouble with eye contact lol (it was so cute actually lol ☺️). Ended with milkshakes by the beach, chilling, telling stories, spilling our souls, stealing gazes. God we're beautiful stereotypes lol

the number of calls needed to make the point that a given vote will cost them is lower than we think, a powerful argument in favor of focusing our energies. you take issue A. I take B. someone else takes C. we make our weekly rounds. no one has to deal with the whole firehose at once

Not quite the platonic ideal of a woman (tbh who is?), but last night was the first time I saw 'her' completely. Not just a brief glimpse in my face, or recognition that my shape is different... the whole person. Fuck. There she is at last 🥺😭

Date cancelled a bit more than an hour before we were supposed to leave - got out of the shower and felt dizzy & nauseous, before being sick. Which sucks for several reasons, the least being no date. But we did proceed to message a bunch over the next few hours, which was really nice!

Update: after some cutesy flirting over text, we have a wine date this Wednesday. And, because I have no chill, I said I'd ask around for recommended venues for a second date... before we'd even finalised details for the first lol

Always was, always will be 🖤💛❤️

Australia has a long history of violence and genocide. This country tries to hide it instead of being better and actually caring about Indigenous & Torres Strait Islanders. I wish things would change. Each year i hope things will be better. 2023 Australia voted no for indigenous voices to be heard

Always Was Always Will Be www.change.org/p/australia-...

Nope. No. Uh uh. Get fucked you revenge porn peddling, predatory piece of shit.

Me: "I think colouring in tattoos would be fun. It's cute, gentle, kinda intimate, and probably relaxing for both people: New friend I've made at this speed dating night: "actually, I'd love it if you coloured my tattoos" Me, when I finally get home: "...wait, what?!"

We’re going to see any expression of virtue in the face of vice depicted by legacy media as a vicious attack on an innocent victim

I think this is more of a standard fascist power play. Vacillate between threatening and 'saving' organisations will keep them fawning in order to stay in his good books. Expect to see more of this.

One of the strange things to happen since starting to transition has been my language. I started calling people (well, friends) "sweetie", and didn't realise until a friend asked if I was putting it on. Same with 'lovely'. And now 'hon', mostly when showing comfort ("Aw, you ok hon?")

Went to a 'Speed Friending' event at our local queer bar last night. I've found it way easier to make friends since transitioning, and thought I'd try expanding beyond the existing circles & tangents I run in. And it was great! Obv not everyone was my cup of tea, but I had more hits than misses

@tknoorgnicintrfc.bsky.social Just setting this up in case Ash turns up here on bsky.