cafesoftie.bsky.social
🤷♀️ i wanna just be a kid, but also, i need everyone to be free, so i guess ill just keep struggling.
If you're also a CG/L person in Ottawa, feel free to send me a DM. As far as i can tell, there's like 3 of us here, which can't be right...
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Wait, little exist in my province?
I assumed 100% of them lived in Seattle.
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Damn, this is validating to know someone i look up to, also struggles w such things.
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you have a larger dip, as you realize your next goals are very difficult to attain. Then you have a crisis as you crave wanting to just move on with your life as a pretty girl who doesn't get harassed by bigots, but you can't help but want that last bit of passing that cis women have.
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Cute concept! I would definitely enjoy the opposite scenario.
Like "you can wear panties, but only if you were boys clothes that have dumb competitive slogans and boring minecraft on them and are olive and grey colours" like fine! Then ill wear the diaper harrumph.
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Fortunately my window and the city light, acts as my night light. Otherwise I don't know how i could get back to my bed without monsters eating me. (Monsters exist in the pitch black)
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I hear yeah... The thing is, i know soooooooo many people. But i have no family... I know a lot of ppl would help me if i needed it. But i dunno, i need family, close to me, sharing meals and living together. Where's my mom-mmune??
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Fyi there's, like, a whole Gintama episode about this :p
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Mood... Why must life ask me to think... Someone should protect me from that...
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Omg i just remembered that i used to make game characters all of the time as an adolescent. Back then i didn't know what a TTRPG was, so it was more based off of SNES games i played. That was such a nice way for my brain to wander...
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My assigned gender at birth won't determine whether i will beat my wife and children. However a certain profession will.
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I remember planning for like a year to buy pull-ups when i was 16. I went to shoppers, got some, heart racing, cycled behind an abandoned industrial lot, covered by trees and put one on. Soon after, i heard a car, got spooked, panicked, threw the rest of the package in the woods and raced home.
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We need both. Well, we don't need reactionaries, but we do need militant organizing. To provide safety, to hold developers and city councillors accountable, and to defend against police violence while we do both of those things.
My point is, pouring our little money into financial support isnt enuf
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It there was absolute unity, then the collective could strike for collectively lower rent, but then use thr surplus to help the ppl renting who need it the most and perhaps can't afford the lowered rent.
I say this as someone who would be the local security for challenging developers or evictions.
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Im glad you'll be good for another month. I gotta mention to you and everyone else, this is why we create tenants unions. If you can get enough unity, you could strike to get rent you can actually afford.
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I don't know if anyone else gave you the following lead: look up "relationship anarchy" essentially treat every relationship however you want!
That said, i tend to be excited to see the person. Which isn't everyone. Altho, i do love everyone.
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Omg where is your clinic for little girls? I'm terribly sick and need a hair ruffle before i cry!
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What a monster. No remorse while being intolerant. Any family member who isn't willing to call him out, should be suspected. Ugh, sorry, i just, im tired of "allies" not standing up for us.
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Some dumbass can bench infinite weight and yell all he wants, but that doesn't earn my respect, so ill fuck him up. But if anyone tells me good girl and tussles me hair once, ill literally do whatever they ask and i will sulk if they're disappointed in me.
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Omg i want that carrot shirt!! So badly!
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Getting to play with a ton of "cousins" "my age" before Christmas dinner and having older cousins tease me and play airplane w me and other things. Also eating so much chocolate (which i do every year anyways... Fine, ever day.)
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The custard is the best part! And it looks like you didn't harden the chocolate, so you did better than my last batch and ive made them a bunch of times!
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Omg yes. I miss being bored.
When do i do nothing while worrying about nothing... When I have an entire fascist NATO to fight, and Palestinians to defend, and neighborhood speed limits to lower. (While healing from trauma, transitioning, and building local and international community)
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If it was the dentist, then you also had the thing with the metal wires where you pushed wooden blocks around. I didn't stop playing with that until i was... I never stopped playing with it. (Altho as i got older i would play with it while commenting "i used to love this thing" the perfect cover)
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I appreciate that Twitter imploded for this reason. It gave me the excuse to simply have my new account happen to include my AR / kiddo side. (And silly trans sex memes, because sex and kink is also normal 🤷♀️)
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I always assumed that feeling would go away, or at least dim if i found at least one care giver in my lifetime, but you've had some and you're still saying these things, so dang...
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That is why queer trans ppl can exist and that is far too much for white supremacist. We're disintegrating centuries of imperialism via the acceptance of trans cat demigirls ;)
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We are the pinnacle of what white supremacist hate.
Queerness is what breaks people free from the excuses used to justify their subjugation.
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Yeah, conservatives being "creative" with how they do austerity. Sometimes it's neglecting funding, sometimes it's materially changing the project to cause it to fail.
It amazes me that people vote for these folks.
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Every time im traveling Northbound on O'Connor towards Parliament.
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Fucking eh! (Sorry for swearing 😰)
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Canada has queer history? I wonder if we have anything that survived in Ottawa... Probably not; it's literally the government.
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You played thru YOUR story ;)
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Imagine thinking non-binary means androgeny.
Does not black or white mean grey to these people?