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Disabled ex-clinician People > Profits Bedbound rabblerouser šŸ”¬šŸ§Ŗnerd Poodle mom Making art keeps me sane-ish Probably listening to #TheCure šŸ„€ #LongCovid #PwME #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #hEDS #POTS #neuroqueer #auDHD #decolonizer #Vermonter
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Iā€™m also now noticing that. Effing skill regression šŸ˜¤
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Visible really helped me learn to pace. Highly recommend.
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Iā€™m so sorry. And also welcome. The Bateman Horne Center does excellent clinical research on LC and ME. They have patient and clinician resources on their site, including treatment guidelines. batemanhornecenter.org/education/me...
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Thatā€™s so interesting! Poodles are the best ā¤ļø
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Relatable! I still havenā€™t had the energy to play with the Kakimori brass nib I received over the holidazeā€¦I gaze at it longingly šŸ« 
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Iā€™m so sorry that your daughter is struggling with this and that it took so long to be believed. That appears to be the universal experience. So glad you now have a provider that believes her! Thatā€™s step 1! Most physicians know nothing about these conditions. Itā€™s a huge problem.
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@skyview.social
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No recs for book use, but nice stitching!
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MECFS, other invisible disabilities that primarily impact AFABs and marginalized folx not a thing, but we were told *by the physicians who wrote chapters in the main medical textbooks* that those symptoms were psychological. Infuriatingly, I hear it hasnā€™t changed much. 2/2
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Iā€™m glad you found someone who gets at least some of what youā€™re experiencing. Just being believed is a huge win! Can concur, when I was receiving my medical education in the early 2000s at a top Ivy League research center in the US, not only were post-infectious syndromes, 1/
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FFS. Gah!
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And Iā€™m so sorry you have these diagnoses. Yes the ā€œpersonal responsibilityā€ and wellness culture BS is so insulting. I see you and Iā€™m with you šŸ’œ
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Hospitals are in a staffing crisis. They canā€™t afford callouts. The solution? Donā€™t test. Short-sighted (obviously). Infuriating. Terrifying.
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Exactly. It has to happen to them or someone close to them for it to be believable. And far as clinicians go, professional ego and disbelief of what canā€™t easily be quantified and qualified prevents compassion and empathy. I say this as a former clinician who was trained this way (but resisted).
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I immediately recoiled from warrior language when I became chronically ill. Same with acceptance. I have Long Covid and ME. There is no timeline for improvement with these. Hell, most people donā€™t even believe weā€™re sick! I donā€™t accept this Surrendering to what is has been the only way forward.
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Ugh sorry. That 48 hr delay is a bitch! Just when you think you made itā€¦.
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lol!
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Your work helped me enormously! Much gratitude from a disabled former clinician šŸ«¶ Iā€™ve lost almost all faith in the medical field which I loved dedicated over 30 years of life to. Your work is so important.
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Your article in NatGeo was what helped me understand that the reason I couldnā€™t get out of bed for a year after developing Long Covid/ME was likely POTS. Dismissed, gaslit, and prescribed only exercise for a year! Finally diagnosed and can tolerate upright position with the correct treatment. TY!
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Not sure why I didnā€™t keep up with that after trying it a few years ago. Appreciate the reminder!
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Oooh this one is right up my alley! Thx
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Exactly!
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Gah how did I forget to list WWDITS?! An all-time fave. If you liked that and havenā€™t tried Our Flag Means Death yet give it a go. Queer pirates AND Taika Waititi? Yes please.
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Excellent philosophy!
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I envy your willpower! šŸ˜¹ May your scarf be a quick finish
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Loved both of those! Sharon Horgan is amazing in Catastrophe and brilliant in Bad Sisters. Agree season 1 of Colin was excellent but season 2 lost the plot and I couldnā€™t finish :-/
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Thx for these!
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Amazing! Thanks! Havenā€™t seen that one yet. With you in GenXgoth solidarity šŸ–¤