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sold my wedding ring today. that was weird.

submitted 15 days ago • 6 comments

good evening, my ex husband texted me to let me know he was dropping off some of the kids' clothes on the front porch, but didn't mention that he was also dropping off my wedding dress crumpled up in a garbage bag.

submitted 19 days ago • 32 comments

i miss my kids so much today. my youngest had a hard time going back to his dad's and it just destroys my heart from the inside out every single time. i know he is fine there, but it kills me.

submitted 55 days ago • 3 comments

i don't feel comfortable talking about it with a 45k audience, but my daughter *destroyed* one of my airpods and this is the part of parenting a special needs/nonspeaking kid that no one talks about. like is it her fault? of course not. but it sucks.

submitted 71 days ago • 10 comments

we did it, joe

submitted 81 days ago • 5 comments

seeing my stepdaughter today for the first time in maybe six weeks? her mom is dropping her off so i can give her a birthday gift + her christmas gift early. i miss her so much. not being in her life the same way will forever be my most devastation from this divorce.

submitted 82 days ago • 9 comments

i wrote this two weeks after i found out i was getting divorced. this post will self-destruct.

submitted 85 days ago • 17 comments

i know there is a certain level of parasocial that i open myself up to by sharing about my life to a large audience, but the amount of people who think they know *exactly* what's going on in my romantic relationship bc of what they read on twitter is startling.

submitted 96 days ago • 4 comments

viral tweet about bf has made it to big accounts on instagram, and he has not yet been hard launched on instsgram 😬

submitted 97 days ago • 4 comments

Thoughts sparked by comments on the *other* app: Part of emotional labor that men often see as unnecessary and frivolous is maintaining social norms and strengthening social relationships. Ie gift giving, cards, phone calls, holidays and invites.

submitted 98 days ago • 3 comments

when i met my bf, i was not a healthy weight. the stress made me stop eating. i got tons of comments telling me i looked "incredible." i confessed that i was worried i would gain weight back and not be as attractive to him. "do it. gain 20 pounds. gain 50. you'll be so f*cking hot."

submitted 99 days ago • 9 comments

only on bluesky can i tell everyone that on my first date with my boyfriend i tipsy told him that i thought stds were "misogynistic."

submitted 99 days ago • 6 comments

we can't go on lock here, can we?

submitted 99 days ago • 3 comments

I try not to read books written by men because frankly I've heard enough

submitted 102 days ago • 2 comments

in case you were wondering, you can emotionally detach from a relationship years before it actually ends. and you may not even know you detached until it ends.

submitted 102 days ago • 11 comments

going to post all of my happy relationship things here bc on twitter i'm already being told im being love bombed 🫠

submitted 102 days ago • 8 comments

alright gonna do a test run of the hard launch over here, what do we think? "and in the blink of a crinkling eye, everything has changed."

submitted 104 days ago • 87 comments

is it still fun if no one on the internet is screaming at me or calling me a fat ugly whore?

submitted 104 days ago • 27 comments

How I feel on Twitter/ how I feel on Bluesky

submitted 104 days ago • 6 comments