finn.and.cat
23 ✧ he / him ✧ eng + ger ✧ vent refugee
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if i wasn't like somehow irrationally scared for my life rn, i would find this insanely funny because i never forced him, i constantly said it's his money, he doesn't need to spend it on me, i know how to live off of the money i do have
like i offered it back and he didn't want it what else can i do
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U CANT JUST POP INTO MY LIFE A YEAR LATER OVER TEXT (i blocked him everywhere, sucks i forgot to fully block his number) AND ASK FOR THAT? THAT IS NOT HOW LIFE WORKS WHAT U HAD UR CHANCES TO GET IT BACK WHEN WE BROKE UP!!!! U SAID NO!!!! U CANT DECIDE OTHERWISE NPW
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looking very chill, meanwhile i'm stressed
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Called my dad for guidance (bc i know i get too panicky too quick), will be monitoring him, no wet food from the same can incase it had something not visible/smellable to me (or him, as he ate it no issue)
behaviour is unchanged, no hiding, relaxed & happy body language, still cuddly & purring
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i'm not sure if i should he stressed about it. could be caused by stress. could just be genetics (can't remember my dad having this issue), could be alopecia ?? could be hormonal or autoimmune.
we shall never know lol
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I feel like you're being overly harsh on the app, it would've sufficed to say you didn't have a good experience on it and don't want to use it, instead you make it sound like you spent a week researching every aspect of it when you haven't.
Give new apps a chance. We have enough monopolies.
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implemented turning off comments/dm messages from posts because people wanted that. Apart from the fact that screenshots still exists. And bluesky allowes it too.
Same for blocking, tell the dev about issues! He can't come across every issue himself.
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In fact, i'd rather see someone use an anime pfp where everyone knows it's from an anime, than AI art, as that's ethically way more problematic.
For savable media, maybe make a suggestion to the dev, he's active and listening. Ask for a setting to allow/disallow saving your media. He has recently
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The app is NOT a vent alternative, as the dev has stated several times before. Anime pfp are largely used everywhere, on here and were esp. on vent. Bc of the same reason as you stated: not wanting your face on there. Not everyone can and will make the effort to draw/create a new profile picture.
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Not going to comment on your experience of harassment as I can't say anything about that other than that I didn't experience it. But I do find it a little unfair to compare a newly opened app made by two people to an app that had several years in development and is 32 million people large.
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like, dare i say it, i wish i had gotten a one-room-flat. two rooms is nice and big, yes. great for the cat now. but man, i just have no idea how to fill it. it doesn't look good. and i don't have money (or deco) to fill it some more.
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i don't know how to feel about it yet either. i love the look and feel of the app, it runs smooth and i like the ui.
but i don't know about not allowing venting yet. i'm drafting a message to the dev rn.
and comments will be coming this week so then ppl shouldnt be dm anymore i think
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very high importance of not being vent tho. like you can't just vent all the shit right onto the timeline and as of right now you're even asked to do it for friends only.
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i'm finn on there hit me up (yes just finn i didnt know it was the user and now im gonna keep it)
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IN MY DEFENCE i saw she had left the little front window and thought she had gone somewhere else, but she was just sitting arround the corner.
but tbh i wouldn't be able to tell what acceptable chit chat is in a situation like this and i'd rather NOT be a nuisance to her or anything
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and then i go in and at the front is like a really friendly looking girl, lowkey cute.
and now i'm like!! great she's gonna be in my head for the next couple days 😔
(i was too afraid to say anything unfortunately, we were both sitting in silence on our phones. could've had a lil chat oop)
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nice imma check you out on there hehe
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in your hand it's a light blue, on the table it's a purple-tinted grey.
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it can be worse 🤡 i hate big corporations
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like fuck you if it requires more than this (unless you require an email confirmation, i guess i can accept that)
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like wdym i need to request to delete my data? hello?
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"not us"
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like idk it's just not fun watching a german movie based on a german novel/thriller playing IN germany and then all the tactics police use is so obviously american. like, we have rights here, and bureaucracy. this would never be feasible like ever. esp not on zero evidence
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thinking i'll forever be seeing my birthname there 😔
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the first support guy was super nice (and german) and helped me, but unfortunately it reset back to the issue after it synced.
so i messaged again and then had 3 different english ppl try and help me, or not try, all gave me the link to german support. i could do english but somehow they didnt wanna