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Respect will be given until it's abused. - Neuroqueer Feminist Ally (AuDHD Pansexual) Monogamous & Partnered. He/him. - No bigot/drama zone. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβ™ΎοΈβ™€οΈ
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The feeling that you've been masking for so long and in so many different environments that you don't know which one is the real you anymore. Apparently it's quite normal for autistics to suffer an identity crisis when unmasking. We also grieve who we were and who we might've been. #autistic

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I need a break from US politics.

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We're reading Big Swiss. I'm thinking Stacy was from Yorkshire the way that accent is written. πŸ˜‚ Please say he's from Barnsley or something. πŸ˜‚ #booksky

Therapy session today. I mentioned something about black and white thinking, and I've often thought of myself as someone who didn't think in absolutes, but when it comes to racism, homophobia, sexism & ableism I will absolutely cut you out of my life if you come at me with that shit.

This is my reminder and now yours! Put phone down, stretch, get something to eat and drink, rest or so something you enjoy! Our spoons are precious and should be protected! #autistic #adhd #spoonrecovery

A quiet start, and then a mad rush! But first book of the day was "Bookshops & Bonedust". For fans of this series, the third one, "Brigands & Breadknives" is available for pre-order right now! - Michael

I hate windy days

As America descends into dystopian chaos I really hope it will leave the rest of the world alone to live how we want and be comfortably detached from the madness. Unfortunately that's not how fascists work. Everyone has to do it their way, or else they're wrong and 'dangerous' & must be stopped. πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

When someone tells you they have a hidden disability (like autism/adhd) and your 1st thought is that they don't look like they have that disability... the correct response is not to question if they have the disability but rather to question your understanding of it. That is all.