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A MF*KN Wellness Brand. By @xoflyduo.bsky.social www.SexTechNChill.com #DestigmatizePleasure
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Such great advice! 🥰 @girlonthenet.bsky.social www.girlonthenet.com/blog/sex-lon...

First they came for the immigrants, and I spoke out, because I’ve read the damn poem before and I know how it ends.

My 76-year-old mother just informed me that she is going to her first "sex party" and doesn't know what to bring. After some awkward questions, I said, "Gender reveal. You're going to a gender reveal."

Curious what percentage of the folks who are “holding back because of sexual shame” grew up in the church.

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“We’ve got a number of states that are passing this &, you know, what happens is the porn company then says, ‘we’re not going to do business in your state,’ which of course is entirely what we were after, right?” Vought said. “We’re doing it from the back door, starting with the kids.”

Capturing moments of intimacy and connection is something that I will always love.. the world needs to see more of this.. #intimacy #sexuality #aaronlawrence #phototherapy

Thanks @sextechnchill.bsky.social for listing CrashPad in your 'Ultimate List of Pornhub Alternatives' guide! We recently saw a small visitor bump from this article, and appreciate you spreading the word about queer BIPOC adult creators and platforms like us. ❤️ sextechnchill.com/playlists/th...

Big thanks to @sextechnchill.bsky.social for including our indie adult film platform PinkLabel.TV as in your 'Ultimate List of Pornhub Alternatives' -- an all-star line-up of go-to sources for porn and erotica that give more support to XXX creators! sextechnchill.com/playlists/th...

"Many people are taught that self-pleasure is taboo or even shameful. However, embracing your own sexuality and engaging in self-pleasure can help you feel more confident and comfortable in your own skin, which can ultimately lead to a more fulfilling sex life." blacklove.com/keep-it-up-w...

“People who learn sex without guilt make better decisions, talk and negotiate more openly with their partners and respect the sexual preferences and desires of others. They enjoy their own bodies and are less jealous, possessive and judgmental.” Excerpt from Sex & God, by Darrel Ray #BookSky

“The age-verification laws that prompted Pornhub blockades are part of a movement seeking to return to a time when obscenity laws were thinly veiled curbs on LGBTQ+ rights.” — @chandrasteele.bsky.social for PC Magazine

"Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." — Audre Lorde

So many people are just craving intimacy

“If God didn’t want us to masturbate, he would have made our arms shorter.” 😜 — Marty Klein Ph.D.

“The truth of where we are right now is that people are exploring sexuality and romance, and questioning the traditional…” #Sexploration www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a6...

DYK: In 1850, the New Orleans Medical & Surgical Journal declared masturbation public enemy number one, warning: "Neither plague, nor war, nor smallpox, nor a crowd of similar evils, have resulted more disastrously for humanity than the habit of masturbation…” #DestigmatizePleasure #AmericanSex

I love how everyone who didn’t like Hot Frosty is mad that it wasn’t horny enough 😆 Have you seen The Merry Gentlemen? 🤣

Sexual relationships can be: • casual • communal • committed • commercial • configured whichever way is authentic for you, even if that means your religious aunt makes the sign of the cross when you enter the room

Deleting my dating apps because I want to meet someone the old fashioned way (I'm sitting in my living room, he's a large jug of red juice that bursts through the side of my wall)

Heaux! Heaux! Heaux! Merry kissmass! 🎅🏾🎄❄️ xoxo

This article is right on time! ✨ If we had to pick a theme for 2025 it would be ‘deepening erotic connection’. Because “when partners feel wanted without pressure or expectation, it creates aliveness and romance, which often sparks desire”, as the article points out, and we couldn’t agree more! 🙌

Have you ever had the privilege of doing it at a drive-in movie? If so, what movie was it and what kind of vehicle was it in?

If you've ever been curious about what awaits inside your local adult toy store but felt a bit shy to take the plunge, consider this your invitation! 👉 sextechnchill.com/stories-and-... #SexTech

As a self-employed disabled person with a complex relationship to work, this part resonated with me in ways that are hard to fully articulate: "I never felt the same sense of shame for admitting I would be trading my life at the cost of $9 an hour in the morning." 😮‍💨 #MECFS @tryst.link

“We all have to pick what we're willing to trade to survive, and the only real difference in what I choose to trade is that we've moralized sex in a way that we haven't moralized 14 hour shifts with no bathroom breaks or sending teenagers to combat training.” #SexInTheNews tryst.link/blog/exploit...

“Sexual liberation advocates for individual autonomy, not the rejection of all traditional sexual norms.” — Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons #GoodSex (Feb 2025) What does sexual liberation mean to you? 🤓 #LetsTalkAboutSex

“It’s important to note that the story isn’t as straightforward as marginalization = bad sex. Some of us with multiple marginalized identities develop revolutionary outlooks on sexual liberation, benefiting from #GoodSex more readily than ppl with privileged identities.” — Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons

Spotlighting the documentary films that have not only marked pivotal moments in our lives, but have also been the catalyst in our drive to explore new horizons and embrace the possibility of new experiences. sextechnchill.com/playlists/6-...

Awesome strategy meeting today with @yobigrube.bsky.social 🤗 So much to do, but next year is personal… keep it locked to @xoflyduo.bsky.social and @sextechnchill.bsky.social for more!! 🥹💕✨

Starting in less than 20 minutes! A workshop led by @jetsettingjasmine.bsky.social blending the expertise of a licensed therapist and the lived experiences of an adult performer. Followed by a panel discussion with industry experts. us06web.zoom.us/webinar/regi...

ICYMI: Who doesn’t love a good origin story?! ✨ Get to know our founders @yagirlsherrij.bsky.social and @yobigrube.bsky.social from their interview with Shoutout Atlanta earlier this year! shoutoutatlanta.com/meet-reuben-... #SexTech #PleasureActivism

Thee best Holiday Gift Guide I’ve seen in a while, featuring non other than the fabulous and iconic Law Roach 😍😍😍 Congratulations to maude for making the cut with not one but TWO pleasure products!! 👏🏻👏🏻 #SexTech #DestigmatizePleasure

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@msradiosapphire.bsky.social, the mistress of eargasms 🎧🎙️, spills her top tracks for creating the sexiest of vibes! Discover Mehgan's hand-picked selection of the juiciest, sultriest songs that'll make you wanna bite a lip, sway, tease, and everything in between! #Interview #Playlist

I love life cus I get to just grab my gf titty and go abt my day

An especially poignant read for folks like myself, who at any point, are navigating life post-religion/post-christianity or looking for resources to help inform themselves as an alternative to the message ingested thru religion and purity culture. #BooksAboutSex #RelationshipBooks

Surround yourself with the kind of people who read banned books.

@raquelwillis.com discusses anti-trans bathroom policing bills response strategies rooted in noncompliance and inspired by historical liberation movements like the lunch counter sit-ins: www.instagram.com/reel/DDhqEPT...

“We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist” James Baldwin

You’ve heard us talk about it! This book is a must read for anyone on personal journey of sexual liberation—especially if you come from a restrictive religious background or deal with sexuality related shame. #exJW #PurityCultureDropout #exvangelical #SexPositive #ShameFree #DestigmatizePleasure