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She / Her. Exvangelical just now beginning to love life, explore her sexuality, and embrace the real her free from the bonds tha held her down πŸ’„ πŸ‘  Gardener πŸ§‘πŸΌβ€πŸŒΎ Fitness πŸ‘Ÿ Positivity is contagious
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It was both my honor and my pleasure to officiate the wedding of @msbonnielynne.bsky.social and her loving groom Matthew tonight. Their love is a shining beacon for all. Bonnie and Matt- I love you both so much! When you have love, you have everything

Reply with an image from your comfort movie πŸŽ₯πŸ€—

A 🧡 On Benefits of Chastity Becoming a keyholder was my first foray into kink following leaving the church. My sister is a human sexuality expert, so I had learned about chastity and was intrigued. It was soon into our relationship that I broached the idea with my boyfriend. 1/8

A global study of sexual violence finds that nearly one out of five women and one out of seven men faced sexual violence as a child. These figures have remained relatively stable since 1990, with slight variations at the country and regional levels. www.thelancet.com/journals/lan...

Feeling lots of gratitude today. Grateful for my family. Grateful for second chances. Grateful to be alive. Spending this beautiful day in the yard, packing for an exciting trip I'm taking this week, and recording with @saoirsethefirst.bsky.social Make this day count! Love you all!

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You are real. You are not a mistake. You are exactly the beautiful person you were meant to be. You helong. Fuck the haters

In today's bizarro episode of "Adventures of a 35 Year Old Exvangelical": my 17 year old daughter asking if I even know how to masturbate. Then not being satisfied with my answer. "Really? Tell me how you do it." #momming #sextalk

I did not expect to get that emotional in feckin Lilo & Stitch! #MovieSky #filmsky #disneysky

Show a moment from tv/film that broke your heartπŸ’” #filmsky #moviesky #tvsky

The conditioning and brainwashing these kids endure is real. As a youth minister in an evangelical community, twice I had teens come to me in conflict and shame over having listened to Taylor Swift or watched one of her videos

Movie night! Watching Mission Impossible 4, and a vivid light show from mother nature outside. Hoping the power stays on! #moviesky

Most pro-lifers are not that. They're "pro birth". It's easy to scream for the rights of the unborn, then fight AGAINST every single system designed to support child and mother post birth. That is NOT the teachings of Jesus

Yesterday I wrote about being down, feeling a loss of community and sense of my purpose on this planet in my deconstruction journey. I was still kind of down all day, until late afternoon after my nephew had gotten home from preschool.

Seeing that getting guys to wear a feckin condom is like trying to get a toddler to wear a sun hat at the beach sometimes, I don't trust dudes at all with this kind of stuff. I'll manage my own birth control