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She / Her. Evangelical youth counselor in prior life. Now deconstructing Exvangelical beginning to live her true life, explore her sexuality, and embrace the real her ♥️ Gardener 🧑🏼‍🌾 Fitness 👟 Positivity is contagious
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Deconstructing has been difficult I underestimated the crushing pain of losing my community, and deep remorse for false narratives I preached. Some days are fine. But some days it comes back in like a tsunami. But that's the thing. It's a process. I know I need to trust it.

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For those who say relationships cannot be sustained long term outside of the terms of a traditional marriage, and God knows I've spoked to many who believe that, here you go. 45 years long enough to be considered long term success?

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At a local ICE Detention Center for Women in metro Boston: Pregnant woman forced to sleep on concrete. Woman on her period denied access to products, then told to "clean herself up" with bottle of water when she bled through www.wbur.org/news/2025/06...

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All of this

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It's okay to not be okay. It's okay to still be trying to find who you are. Don't lose faith in your journey. Don't let agents of darkness dim your light. You are exactly who you are meant to be in this moment.

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I watched the Call Her Alex documentary on Hulu. Regarding her bombshell accusations against my alma mater Boston University and Nancy Feldman, unfortunately I've seen enough and experienced enough to believe Alex Cooper 💯 without hesitation.

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"How was school today, buddy?" "Good! There was a spider outside, and Kylie ate it!" "Well, Kylie sounds like a fun girl. What else happened today?" "Nothing." Yep. That was the highlight. #TalesFromAuntieAsh

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My 2025 Theme Song: "I'm coming home I'm coming home Tell the world I'm coming home Let the rain wash away, all the pain of yesterday I know my kingdom awaits and they've forgiven my mistakes I'm coming home I'm coming home Tell the world I'm coming" youtu.be/k84QxVJd0tI?...

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If music is your therapy, who is your therapist.

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Decriminalize sex work. Take the stigma away from it. And stop saying its about "protecting" women. As the OP said, many women have been clients. Even more have considered it.

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Let me show you a real Honest cop (my favorite comedy show ever)

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The Garden of The Gods was the perfect backdrop to announce to my family, my friends, and my former evangelical community that I'm a queer girl. Thanks to my daughter Nashville for recording and editing, and my sister @saoirsethefirst.bsky.social for the love

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30 DAY FILM CHALLENGE Day 5: The first film you saw at a cinema #Film #FilmSky #Movie #MovieSky #30DayFilmChallenge

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30 DAY FILM CHALLENGE Day 4: A film from the 1970s that you like #Film #FilmSky #Movie #MovieSky #30DayFilmChallenge

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30 DAY FILM CHALLENGE Day 3: A film you like with a number in the title #Film #FilmSky #Movie #MovieSky #30DayFilmChallenge

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30 DAY FILM CHALLENGE Day 2: A film that makes you feel good #Film #FilmSky #Movie #MovieSky #30DayFilmChallenge

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30 DAY FILM CHALLENGE Day 1: A film set in a location you'd like to visit Forgetting Sarah Marshall #Film #FilmSky #Movie #MovieSky #30DayFilmChallenge

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Today's western road trip adventure brought us to an In-N-Out burger. We had always heard this was "best burger in America". Neither my daughter nor I found it to be that. we enjoyed. But I don't think as good as Wahlburgers. Daughter likes Five Guys better

submitted 7 days ago • 2 comments

Yesterday afternoon on my travels I stopped into a coffee shop in this small-ish university town. Didn't realize it was an LGBTQ oened and friendly shoppe when I stopped in. It was warm and friendly and I loved the artsy college town vibe.

submitted 9 days ago • 2 comments

It was both my honor and my pleasure to officiate the wedding of @msbonnielynne.bsky.social and her loving groom Matthew tonight. Their love is a shining beacon for all. Bonnie and Matt- I love you both so much! When you have love, you have everything

submitted 12 days ago • 6 comments

Reply with an image from your comfort movie 🎥🤗

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