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She / Her. Exvangelical just now beginning to love life, explore her sexuality, and embrace the real her free from the bonds tha held her down 💄 👠 Gardener 🧑🏼🌾 Fitness 👟 Positivity is contagious
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Thank you, Jenn!
I woke up in the morning feeling like a huge weight had been taking off of me and it was the first day of my life
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They're out of control. In Massachusetts ICE agents in all black clothing and facemasks smashed a car window and dragged a young woman out through the window and put her in the back of an unmarked van. Only confirmed as ICE after the fact
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"oh my, sounds like you have some stories!"
"Sure do. Just nobody who wants to hear them."
"I'd love to hear them."
So, yes, I'm still here in this college town this morning. 😄
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"I'm just road tripping with no real plan. I've never seen the western United States. I cane last week to officiate my transgender baby daddy's and her grooms wedding in Colorado last week. Since then it's been me, my camera, and my Bronco on the open road."
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The young lady working there chatted me up as I sat editing some photos and enjoying my coffee and scone.
"So what brings a girl from Ireland here?"
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Thanks sis! 💋
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That is so great!
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We have both been so happy in this lifestyle so far!
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Thank you for the support and repost!
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Good morning Kalifornia. From where I stand and know of you, it looks like you're doing great with living your true self!
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Kind of. I didn't really live much when I was that age. But he is someone I knew for a while, and he reached out a hand when I was having a hard time and he offered his similar experience, we bonded, and became close
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It's not about changing him, but coaching him to be the best version of himself. It's not about denying sex or orgasms, but defining expectations through trust. 8/8
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Did I expect him or even want him to stop playing video games with his bros? Of course not. But now it's not every night. When I take him out, he's leaving the ratty tees at home and wearing collared shirts. 7/8
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And I mean this the nicest way possible- it's helped him grow up. He is nearly 15 years my junior at 21 years old. When we began to date, he was living a typical 21 yesr old lifestyle. 6/8
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He makes me a priority. He has learned that there are not only other ways but better ways than using his dick to satisfy a woman. 5/8
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For me, the biggest benefit has been finding my dominance. I decide when and how we are intimate. It also emboldens me to lead in all aspects of our relationship. 4/8
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None of those things happened. Despite him needing to adjust his sleep position a bit, it didn't hurt him. It didn't snuff anything out of our sex life. And he loves being a locked submissive. 3/8
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To my surprise, he was excited and eager to try. I still had trepidation. Was it going to hurt him with such a small cage on his genitals? Was I going to snuff the air out of our sex life? Would he resent me?
2/8
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Your courage and strength is inspiring
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Digital editing, honey. There won't be any hint of those scars
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You're not the same woman you were 20 years ago, or even 5 years ago. If soul mates are truly a thing, you and Matt are it! You both deserve this and you'll be so happy together.
I love you Mama Bear ♥️ And I love sweet cutie pie Matthew too ♥️
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Yes!
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My observations and experience: Too often people go into it with it poorly planned, or planned at all. They do it on a whim. Sometimes alcohol is involved.
To be successful, you need to think it out first. There needs to be a conductor / leader.
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Good morning, Kalifornia! It's a nice day here. Drying out from all the rain. Day off. Packing my bags for my baby daddy's wedding in Colorado. Cleaning up yard debris, sprucing up the garden. Grateful for one more day on this planet. All good stuff.
Hope you're having a nice day!
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LOL so true
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Yep! That was a really cool scene.
I started watching these movies because of all the hype of the one coming out this weekend. I had never seen any of them. I had no idea it was such a big franchise!
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I love your message today ❤️
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This one was my favorite one so far
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I really wanted pizza today but the little boy I care for wanted Wendy's, and it was easier to say yes to that than deal with an epic toddler meltdown