Everything else aside, no one ever says WHO is supposed to 'reach out to young men.' Why?
Whose work is it to do this?
Is it implicit that this is work men should do or is the expectation once again that it's women's work?
Whose work is it to do this?
Is it implicit that this is work men should do or is the expectation once again that it's women's work?
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I’m suggesting it can be powerful for young men to reach out to young men
instead of looking to elders
I don't know many young men willing to risk that kind of abuse in order to reach out to other young men
Idk if it works for high school kids too but ...play games with them? Fortnite, Minecraft, and if you don't have video games y'know teach them tabletop games or card games then get serious?
Men do this. Guys do this. These guys follow guy streamers and guy prank channels. Know what they watch and talk about. I'm a trans man and I know this. Treat young men like people not a burden.
I'm noticing that white folks are very quick to critique people of other groups for not taking care of their kids but will by in large invent every justification under the sun to not talk to our kids.
If guys game and video game they need to point people to female role models period on every level.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/paultassi/2025/03/03/streamers-valkyrae-cinna-and-emiru-attacked-during-livestream/
Yall go Do that
how are parents raising kids these days? how can we reach mama's boy and daddy's little man? he's well protected.
Sadly, we have entered what appears to be an infinite ass loop in this country.
Not sure what to do about that. Teaching my kid right anyway.
I work in IT with a lot of men and I do this work too.
Everyone should take responsibility.
Find something you like, find a group who does it, and meet people. They except friends and dates to be delivered to their doors like everything else.
there is a reason that right wing grifts are more prevalent than left-wing grifts in a society built around capitalistic greed
That day, I decided to tell him. I was frank. We talked for a full 45 minutes.
After, he still claimed he didn't understand. I washed my hands of it at that point. 🤷♀️
Men who are older and see the hurt that was done to their mothers, loved one, daughters or sisters
Men need to present a better picture of what masculinity is.
There’s ALSO lot of internalized misogyny in women that does get transferred to boys. Not every woman is where you are.
I think that has done a lot of damage.
They are becoming Tate/Peterson/Rogan fans, not pulling kids out of the fire.
It's handjobs and blowjobs, which they aren't willing to give to these young men, for the benefit of society.
Maybe it's time for *them* to take one for the team.
And this is why masculinity is a prison.
So the feminist men, especially feminist white men, this is where they need to lead men after years of following women
All the men that want to lead, shouldn't, and we know this, so it's time for the ones that don't want to speak up, to scream
Our young men are defective in the same ways as our President, Military Officers, Clergy, etc.
So I don't know who they are sposd to learn from.
We need something cultural and all those men do is fight equality
The Rich are trying to program a fight.