Well, I’ve had enough of this one.
These are the type of messages we all repeatedly get from a certain person who spiraled about two years ago and burned every bridge.
I’ve stayed quiet about them because I don’t see any reason to stoke the fire, they want the reaction. /1
These are the type of messages we all repeatedly get from a certain person who spiraled about two years ago and burned every bridge.
I’ve stayed quiet about them because I don’t see any reason to stoke the fire, they want the reaction. /1
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You're a better person than I am to have put up with the abuse for this long
just vile I'm so sorry boozy what the hell. .
I wonder if this is who I'm thinking of
But considering this is a regular thing, and it keeps going on, and it’s more or less targeted at anyone who associates with their ex now, I just wanted to put it out there. /3
Anyhow, last I’ll say about it.
I hope they find some peace. I’m not gonna deal with them anymore though. Blockity block block.
We compare them, see who’s getting the nastiest ones. It’s become like collecting the world’s shittiest Pokémon.
I’m sorry man this sucks.
The best thing you can do is try to be polite but past that no one has time to be harassed.
All we can do is block to keep our peace.
Hopefully they pull out of it soon and get help or find somewhere healthy/stable to land.
🫂🫂🫂
Canadians have committed a ton of war crimes back on ww1 era >.>
Probably why we're so apologetic and nice now
But also... yes.. when the Canadians are done...
I'd seen the manic episodes going on and hoping that they'd find the help they'd need to heal and find a path forward.
But that shit is beyond the pale and so absolutely disgusting that I can't even give them the tiniest benefit of the doubt.
Oof.
I've run into this sort once or twice in the past (thankfully not directed at myself, though) where friends had to deal with this sort of crap.
Wish I had better advice beyond what you're already doing.
Limit contact, and quietly warn folks involved if you hear anything
Sorry that they're putting you and others through this, it's not right
I'm sorry you and your spouse are dealing with that, that's just plain shitty.
I wish I understood why people get like this.
And it’s not that their behavior is excused by their past trauma, but it is understandable.
Not getting into other factors
That's why I can't know why.
I can know why for an individual but not every person.
What I stated above tends to be true most of the time. The majority of people who hurt others are good-intentioned but traumatized and the skills they adapted to handle their trauma end up being harmful later in life (either to themselves, others, or both).
I have my own issues, I'm not going to psychoanalyze people I don't know when right now in this moment people with mental health issues are being targeted by people with money.
Sorry if I'm not going to lump everyone with trauma in one bottle.
He basically was of the opinion that other people should solve his problems, and so would let his life fall apart until someone would desperately try to help with what should have been a minor problem.
Ask how managing his diabetes went.
It didn't.