I wonder what he’d say if she texted him to get hair plugs, a bacne treatment and do at least 12 “leg days” before their next date…because she’s “concerned…”
Well, it’s not uncommon to be attracted to someone’s personality and not their appearance, BUT:
a) no, don’t “bring up your concern” to her. There is no upside to that.
b) stop wasting her time. Set her free.
c) “what I’m used to dating” is entitled, douchey, and dehumanizing. Are women things?
Yes, you're being shallow. No, you shouldn't bring it up unless you're interested in being dumped.
You found someone smart, caring and attentive whose personality you love. How about you treat her like you can't believe how lucky you are to be dating someone so Awesome? #TheOriginalFoolMrTPitied
I want to see what he looks like. Why are we supposed to overlook anything physical while males feel it's their right to only focus on every effing detail of our bodies and disqualifying a wonderful woman for a few pounds.
Hmmmm, it's a real Sherlock-level mystery why this dude has been 'single for some time'.
30 pounds! Gracious me!
Yes, definitely bring up this so she can find someone so much better than your worthless ass.
Lol yes, it's like did he trick her into getting on some scales? Because height, frame...also muscle weighs more than fat. Is he scared cos she could hurl him out a window?
WTF is wrong with these men?
I’m an old guy, raised in a very conservative and patriarchal society where my Mom couldn’t get her own bank account when I was born.
Women got their rights to vote fully in 1990 for G sakes.
And here I am wondering WTF is wrong with these people!!!
Ironically, his issue here is both seeing himself as a man and women as females. A man needs to find a female to improve his image and social status, so the female needs to meet precise criterias. While a male would just follow his instincts and not care for meaningless details
He should bring it up so she can know what a piece of shit he is and walk away before she gets too attached. Who the fuck walks into a relationship and starts demanding their partner lose weight?
I think this is something most guys need to get over at some point. But since guys rarely have friends they can talk to, they need help wherever they can get it. Be kind and tell him to get over it and enjoy the plumpness. Dismissing him will only push him further away.
Wait, it took him multiple dates to figure out she might not be as slim as he prefers? Huh? Dude, if you like her, don't worry about her.
Her best response to him is to tell him he isn't as slim as she prefers (cause I bet he is way heftier than she is)
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No you just hate women and it’s obvious
a) no, don’t “bring up your concern” to her. There is no upside to that.
b) stop wasting her time. Set her free.
c) “what I’m used to dating” is entitled, douchey, and dehumanizing. Are women things?
So...she only weighs 30 pounds, or his imaginary dates somehow had mass?
You found someone smart, caring and attentive whose personality you love. How about you treat her like you can't believe how lucky you are to be dating someone so Awesome? #TheOriginalFoolMrTPitied
2. Having preferences is fine
30 pounds! Gracious me!
Yes, definitely bring up this so she can find someone so much better than your worthless ass.
Is that even something you can visually estimate? Even a relatively small height difference is surely going to impact what 13kg looks like on a body!
I’m an old guy, raised in a very conservative and patriarchal society where my Mom couldn’t get her own bank account when I was born.
Women got their rights to vote fully in 1990 for G sakes.
And here I am wondering WTF is wrong with these people!!!
I hope this woman finds better dates asap.
Bear please.
Ok, jerker.
Also men: I'm about to self-sabotage so hard I'll be famous online. Thanks, fEmAlEs
Her best response to him is to tell him he isn't as slim as she prefers (cause I bet he is way heftier than she is)
He *wishes* he could get a woman. Of ANY weight.