notthebloodyprince.bsky.social
Autistic as fuck and proud of it. Musical nuisance. Fuck Donald Trump. Trans rights
25 years old
She/Her 🏳️⚧️
Musician, teacher, GM, ex dressage rider, ex longbow field archer, loser of bloodbowl matches, perpetually confused demisexual lesbian
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It's such a small silly example compared to what others go through but its just one thing that comes up so often that it illustrates just how many people don't realise we don't just get to exist in peace. Its infuriating
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Almost every time I've talked about having to get up early to put makeup on before work I've had people tell me to just skip it and had to struggle through explaining to them that skipping it actively puts me and students I'm with in danger. Every time I skip makeup I get harassed, its not a choice
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Yep. Just dickheads looking for a scapegoat to control other stupider dickheads. We just got the short end of the stick. I think the thing that bothers me the most is cis folks not thinking the discrimination is really that bad when the evidence is plain to see
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I think the thing that baffles me more than anything is that out of all the groups the bigots could have accused of being predators these idiots chose the one thats near universally on treatments that heavily inhibit your sex drive for ages...
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*NHS waiting list is bloody huge
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So fuck it. I'm just mad that the decision to leave this career seems to be getting made for me whether I like it or not. I am so done with this, we already get overworked and paid like crap for the hours we pull. If on top of all of that we can't even be ourselves I no longer see the point
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I think I'm just done teaching. I already hate having to enforce arbitrary rules, I've gotten moaned at more than enough times for refusing to have a go at someone for not tucking their shirt in. I write for punk bands, that couldn't be further from who I am
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And now the passport office are still insisting on evidence of my gender change anyway so my ability to work is entirely at the mercy of one gp deciding not to be a shithead and writing me that letter. I spent three years working myself to death and now I might never be able to use my qualification
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So in the meantime I applied for a new passport under my new name without the gender marker change because that'd require a letter from the doctor confirming my change is likely to be permanent (which they won't do until I'm on HRT), or a gender recognition certificate which will take years to get
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So in the meantime I'm having to be an assistant so I can afford my private care because the nhs is bloody huge. But now I can't even do that because the DBS office have decided my deed poll is enough to invalidate my background check, but not enough evidence to prove my name change
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Thank you. I needed that ❤️
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I sincerely hope whoever this person is is having a better day than I am. However they treat me, I still want them to feel safer than they've made me feel. I love my community even if it doesn't always love me back.
Lots of love from the psychopathic emissary of all trans kind (apparently) ❤️
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I am me. I am happy. And I will be authentic, after 25 years of repression I refuse to be anything else. If that makes me cringey or makes me look like a psychopath then fine. I'm still happy and no one is taking that from me.
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Its one asshole. It isn't representative. But the first person treating me like that also being trans is a bad feeling. We've got enough enemies from without, we do not need them from within. Every trans girl I see is gorgeous and I will die on that hill. We need to support eachother
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I've been doing my makeup for less than two months, before I was out I had ten pictures of myself I took that I know of. I am bad at it. I'd almost feel empowered if it wasn't so mean, somehow single handedly representing us after two months would almost be an accomplishment
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Slightly nicer angle. I am bad at taking pictures
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I have no idea what that is. Its the picture I just happened to get today, my face camera does not work so I have to take shots like this blind
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I've been out quite a lot lately, even in heels my range is longer than its ever been. I still have issues with my joints but I think being physically tense from trying to hide myself constantly made things so much worse. Its nice to actually feel confident off stage finally
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www.facebook.com/share/p/15uY...
A link to some videos. We will be leaving facebook soon, just searching for another platform that suits our needs still. As brilliant as bluesky is the lack of video support is a bit of a dealbreaker so hopefully we find something soon
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Just a pocket hairbush that pops in and out for storage. I always really liked them