As a rape survivor, the very thought of having a sexual abusing Commander-in-Chief and a sexual abusing Secretary of Defense makes me want to throw up.
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As the victim of sexual assault I am scared and disgusted too. Confirming him sends the message that sexual assault is ok! He has not been President for even a week yet, and has dismantled much of the government.
It’s a slap in the face to all victims of sexual abuse. That’s their whole point. To further belittle those they believe to be weak. Bullies can’t feel good about themselves unless they’re hurting someone else. Trump will get what’s coming to him. You reap what you sow.
Oh this is my senator ....
Apparently, the majority of men in the Senate are known rapist, wife beaters , cheaters .....
This chud was supposedly a Christian with his wife since middle school 😒🫠
You are not alone. All of this has been one giant trigger for me. The people that are ok with this blow my mind. I don’t even want to be near them. Had to have my medication upped and my blood pressure is fixin’ to take me out if I don’t get it under control…
My blood pressure has turned to dangerous. Agree. It’s never not upsetting to hear his voice, I hate that mofo and I’ve never hated a president in my life.
Yes absolutely. I decided to reconnect with just Lawrence O’Donnell show bc even though he tells it like it is - bleak as it may be, he somehow comforts me. But just raw news? I can’t stand it.
My migraine prevention meds that double as anxiety meds are carrying me right now. I'm cycling between anxiety and rage. I don't understand how people can just be okay with rapists in power either. And the Trumpers I know want me to dance around their feelings. Fuck them.
he TRULY takes pleasure in abusing women and observing how he can effect them. KNOW this. Hes been psychologically abusing swathes of people, by groups, and enjoys every sadistic minute of it.
i often get to Stuttering sometimes and have to qualify it to my family...saying .."Im stuttering i realize it. thats how upset and disturbed i am. i cant even communicate it fast enough'. all men around me,and not sure they could EVER comprehend
Ive been told by all the people around me that Im acting weird & not normal and try to calm down and Im legit screaming NO SHIT I AM SAYING IT OUT LOUD THAT THIS HAS FUCKED ME UP.I haven’t been quiet about it.I have CPTSD from childhood abuse.Ive done so well with meds and therapy.Regression is real
honestly to get to the point of SAYING it out loud, the people around you have to understand how deeply it had to effect you to GET to the point of expressing it verbally. but they just cant, they do not share the trauma
I understand ... I cant recommend one thing over another to help oneself..I can ask you to NOTICE, that thisplace is the ONLY place Ive ever SEEN where conversations of this nature are not immediately assaulted by trolls/bots trying to silence us. take that as something supportive. we are here💙
I yelled at my sister whom I love very much.She was trying to be helpful and said something to try to talk me off the ledge and she didn’t mean it how it came out.Shes in a masters program for clinical counseling. I told her she “just failed out of school” and hung up. That’s not me😣😢
I see you-I feel this. Do not let them tell you that you are over reacting. What we are feeling is real and none of this is normal. Talk to trusted people.
But it's obviously not enough for Sen Joanie Ernst, a self-proclaimed sexual assault survivor whilst in the military. She's ok with a Christo-fascist, sexual predatory as Sec. Def.
Bring your family to Canada. Or Costa Rica. Or Australasia. Don't go to Europe - trumpster-fire ensured their future yesterday. You are not safe in Amerika anymore.
There was a time when people of this country had integrity and wouldn't support people of a morally degenerate, criminal... "caliber," regardless of party. They would be condemned by anyone and everyone. And let's not mince words. One is a RAPIST, and the other paid off his victim.
Hang in there. We all want to throw up. This is disgusting. I'm ashamed of my country right now. But we will get past this. They are loud and obnoxious but they are still a small minority of Americans.
It's a feature, not a bug. The GOP is full of racist rapist pedophile scumbags and they're proud of it and the people that vote for them are proud of it because it's a reflection of who they are
I am a survivor and retired trauma therapist. His Image and voice are not allowed on any screen in my home. This is a continuous trauma event for a lot of people.
Some Republican politicians on The Hill texted Cassidy Hutchinson suggesting a quid pro quo involving sex for “no charges”. I feel like I really will throw up even typing this
Deep breaths…
Stay safe 💙💙💙
The worst part is the military already has a predator/rape problem too. They’ll get emboldened even more. I grew up on a base and saw news about soldiers raping local Okinawan girls and taught near a base where I had underage girls in my class getting ‘boyfriends’ of the local Marines
Whatever "government" this is, it's a HORRIBLE representation of "the people." They want to fire people THEY think didn't earn it when Orange H*tler himself needed f*ckin' SCOTUS to keep him on the ballot and out of prison. THAT wasn't based on merit. None of his cabinet members are qualified.
I'm so sorry you went through that and can't bring myself to even imagine...
I'll do all I can for a NO on Hegseth.
What words are you using in calls to senators? I still have more calls to make but decided to hit Sen. Tillis from the point of view of the 'military' very important to Lots in NC.
I’m sorry for you. These injustices must feel like being attacked again. All of these vile scum and the people that put them there make me want to puke.
Never experienced those travesties, but it sickens me. Not just these 2. SC justices; nominating Gaetz for AG. Abortion rights? Men have always sucked Females made great strides on the backs of great women. Time to rise up again. Would be honored to walk besides anyone who leads the next movement
This 🍊🤡 administration is full of corruption, chaos and incompetence. The GOP senators are closing their eyes and ears to all these disgraceful nominees because they’re power hungry narcissist A Holes.
The House impeaches. The Senate decides whether to convict or not. He was impeached 2x & the gop majority Senate failed to uphold their oaths both times.
Everything Trump says or does makes me want to 🤮. This is actually a *healthy* response. There are far too many people—women in particular—who are swallowing everything he says not realising how toxic it is. It will eat away from within. 😡
For me, it makes me want to sharpen a knife in case I need to Bobbitt some feckless dickwad... it pisses me off. And some men wonder why women aren't having sex with them? They are GROSS
💐🩷😢 sorry to hear and so agree. Forget party lines, just who in a civil society where we were taught true right from wrong & compassion to fellow humans etc, condones this behaviour on all subjects & matters at hand. Truly is like a coup occurred like in third world countries. Wild West vibes. 🇨🇦
That is one of the reasons I cut my favorite cousin out of my life. She knew I was raped at 16 and how it impacted my entire life (I’m 50 now) and she’s voted for him 3 times. I will never forgive her for voting for a rapist. Saw her at our grandpas funeral 2 weeks ago and just looked past her.
I’m so sorry. That had to be very difficult to deal with. My best friend was molested as a child by an extended family member but still had to see him and his wife at family functions even after she opened up to her family about it. We are giving men the message that rape is ok. It’s not acceptable
I still don’t know that. Even though we were raised conservative, our grandparents were Democrat and I thought everyone in our family voted that way. I only found out she was an orange supporter the night Biden won and she was at my house and upset. I went off on her stupidity. She quoted lies about
Biden and I told her to do some research because those were debunked. I found out later her new husband was maga and so was her stepmom. She was always a follower and I think that’s what she did. Only found out about this election because of what she posted on fb. Haven’t spoken to her since.
Everyone should be outraged. Something important to note - In veterans with PTSD, MST (military sexual trauma) is not uncommon among men. Male victims are often literally beaten into submission, totally ashamed and no one wants to admit, talk about or address it, so it is as if it never happened.
My thought this morning was we’re no longer a government of the people by the people for the people we are a government of sexual assault perpetrators bisexual assault perpetrators for sexual assault/abusive perpetrators
Keep in mind that the Orange Clown is also a sexual abuser and a felon. I’ll bet that they were also all members of Epstein’s club. How disgusting and hypocritical. Republicans have rejected all of their founding values.
Same here. From the first time he was "elected" against a overly qualified woman to now. America said to us they hate us. I take it personally when someone mentions they voted for him. They voted for a rapist, for my rapist because it doesn't matter which one it is, they're the same.
Take heart, Hegseth reminds me of a quote about another military leader,
“There was a single item in our advantage, but it was an important one. McClellan had brought superior forces to Sharpsburg, but he had also brought himself.”
Survivor here as well. It's mind-boggling to me that 70 million people in this country would vote for a serial predator & criminal. I'd bet you are also like me in being totally perplexed by Nancy Disgrace.
Certainly, you'd throw up before you'd sign up which would suit them just fine as they've shown repeatedly that they don't want women in the military.
Can you imagine the enthusiasm (or lack thereof) that would be evident in the military's sexual non-discrimination enforcement?
I married a white man. He is aware of his privileges, and it angers him as well. Let's keep up the fight to make sure all people are protected from yall-queda. ✊️
It is unsettling in so many ways. Elevating filth to positions of authority undermines the foundation of our society.
Thank you for baring what must be hard.
Based on the upcoming legislation surrounding Project 2025 women are potentially going lose their reproductive rights.
This is a heinous crime against our mothers, daughters, sisters and wives.
Get ready for the fight. This must be dealt with harshly.
People behind P2025 have said they'll be closing the borders to prevent women from escaping after they start forced breeding programns- it is basically an impregnation through rape in order to increase population. For months we've been saying to leave the country! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqEvRhyVpew
Oh but haven't you heard, there's a war in the middle east, so therefor people were not allowed to vote for Harris because that would be "GeNoCiDE SuPpORt". I fucking hate the people who enabled this fascist bullshit.
Well, the war is over (until an inevitably new war in four years, but that’s another story). And it would have ended under Kamala, also. So I hope those MAGAs come to regret their decision.
I know, I am being sarcastic and calling out the people who spread the b.s. lie that supporting Kamala was support for genocide and all that illogical bullshit. They helped get us Trump and I'm kind of pissed that they're not facing any repercussions for it.
Same.
I’m hoping that the EU gets tired of our current admin and publicly give us the reality check we deserve for letting this happen again.
We’re definitely not the protector of freedom and democracy anymore.
Between Trump, Elon, and Pete Hegseth, we are now a threat to whole damn world.
We are exhausted and beyond depleted. That paired with the traumatic shock we are all feeling right now at how this could be happening... we need a minute. At this moment, we feel like none of it mattered. We were ignored and dismissed.
We will be back after we rest, stronger than before.
You know what? These people were PISSED when FDR passed the New Deal, Brown v. Bd. Of Ed, LBJ signed the Civil Rights Act & Roe was decided. It took them over 40 YEARS but they never wavered in their intent to overturn it all. You people go through 9 years & you've wimped out. No wonder we get 💩 on.
Sorry I hurt your feelings. You don't need to take it personally, unless I hit home. Also, perhaps you'd like to provide instruction on how I should refer to other people? Maybe my grammar or syntax is a problem, too?
Trust me, everyone has been fighting tooth to nail on this app and the good part of the Nazi owner’s social media app to fight against what we have now.
What about all the marches that happened all over the country by women who were unable to afford the trip to D.C.? Just from the women posting on Bluesky alone, a lot more women cared than you are giving credit too.
That’s the problem, I didn’t even know of this. The movement to protest against the election didn’t spread well enough online to get to the Democrats’ heads to reject Trump’s presidency.
One million people marched, but what did that do in the long run?
Instead of focusing on marches and protests that have clearly failed, we needed to incentivize voting for Kamala more to other people. We, as a country, failed to do that, therefore look where we are now.
Usa has had its fair share of womanizing assholes in charge of important government positions, but they were (mostly) capable and having a skillset fitting for the job. Hegseth has absolutely none. Didnt the republicans see that?!
I feel the same way! As a former army officer, I’m beyond disgusted w Hegseth! He also doesn’t respect international laws of the Geneva Convention. How are we going to fill a volunteer force with this type of leadership? Big problems ahead recruiting quality men and women!
I think they will start to align the white nationalist militias in America to the us army. They will have plenty of warriors at the ready unfortunately.
I agree - it is disgusting. As are so many actions of the current administration. First pursuing an investigation into Cassidy Hutchinson - then calling it off because of a fear that GOP members' sexting her might be exposed - is another example of their disgusting behavior.
Will we ever see the day when Republicans in Congress are motivated by morals, ethics or doing the right thing? Instead of CYA, pure meanness or threats?
I am not optimistic that they will ever care again. My hope is that many in the party will defect away from the Republican Party. It is shocking how many people in America have become truly hateful of their fellow Americans.
If he says it’s not true, then it’s not true. I say anytime he spreads bullshit he needs to be told he’s a LIAR. Everytime!! I just don’t know who will do it.
As a female veteran (28 yrs in USAF) & Victim Advocate; it’s part of their plan to make military undesirable career choice for women. It fits in w/plan to push women out of workplace/back home. Add reducing access to BC/abortion care & they’re closer to 2025/wyt xtian nationalist/anti-woman goals.😡🤬
I was just reading of how life was for Afghan women in the 1970s, their professional careers, the recognition of their equality and rights, their freedoms to live their lives. It can all change so quickly and we must never think it can’t happen here. Thank you for putting on the uniform for us.
Truth!! I’m 65yo, I remember when Iranian govt fell & religious zealot Ayatollah took over. Women went from the 1970s lifestyle to the hijab, being denied education, employment, equal/fair treatment! As a black woman & veteran I say “We WILL NOT go back to 1950s America!” 😡🤬
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*take that any way you wish. It works.
Apparently, the majority of men in the Senate are known rapist, wife beaters , cheaters .....
This chud was supposedly a Christian with his wife since middle school 😒🫠
https://cawp.rutgers.edu/blog/gender-differences-2024-presidential-vote
I know I am, and I don't think it makes me unusual in any way.
The amount of capitulation to these bastards confuses me.
For all the bluster, aggression and volume from republicans, they have no morals or values.
I can't think of anything weaker
Bullies
Cheats
Thieves
Liars
AND WORST OF ALL
THEY ARE SEXUAL DEVIANTS!
Deep breaths…
Stay safe 💙💙💙
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/cassidy-hutchinson-subpoena-jan-6-investigation-b2685385.html
I'm so sorry you went through that and can't bring myself to even imagine...
I'll do all I can for a NO on Hegseth.
What words are you using in calls to senators? I still have more calls to make but decided to hit Sen. Tillis from the point of view of the 'military' very important to Lots in NC.
Hegseth is unfit.
Thank you.
If you have room in your heart for one more soul, JJ, please pray for me. I want to be a better husband and father.
I have a former flag officer as a friend. I will reach out about the DoD nominee.
Thanks again for all you do.
You were very cosy with Biden
“There was a single item in our advantage, but it was an important one. McClellan had brought superior forces to Sharpsburg, but he had also brought himself.”
Shameful
It’s extremely sharp, it will puncture eyes, cartoid artery, groin, liver.
Punch & Drag. I got it in an ammo shop in Texas
We really need to start some kind of phone chain in case people need help.
I’ve got land with buildings on them in SC.
I’ll start another Underground Railroad if i have to
We have to keep it offline, obviously
Any one else in the military with his alcohol problem would be disqualified from service. To have him at the top is a disgrace.
We just needed one more GOP Senator with a spine.
Can you imagine the enthusiasm (or lack thereof) that would be evident in the military's sexual non-discrimination enforcement?
Thank you for baring what must be hard.
This is a heinous crime against our mothers, daughters, sisters and wives.
Get ready for the fight. This must be dealt with harshly.
Call and encourage them to vote NO
202 224-3121. Capitol switchboard
Republican Woman Senators
Ashley Moody
Katie Boyd Britt
Cynthia Lummis
Marsha Blackburn
Cindy Hyde-Smith
Joni Ernest
Shelley Moore Capito
Deb Fischer
I’m hoping that the EU gets tired of our current admin and publicly give us the reality check we deserve for letting this happen again.
We’re definitely not the protector of freedom and democracy anymore.
Between Trump, Elon, and Pete Hegseth, we are now a threat to whole damn world.
Meanwhile, the MAGA-Far-Right says empathy is a manipulative tool. Look at this book being published next month: "The Sin of Empathy." https://canonpress.com/products/the-sin-of-empathy
🤮
These pigs are disgusting.
2017 over 1,000,000 people marched on DC and the U.S.
2025 only 100,000 showed up
I’m not sure what will actually make Americans care.
We will be back after we rest, stronger than before.
That’s the problem, I didn’t even know of this. The movement to protest against the election didn’t spread well enough online to get to the Democrats’ heads to reject Trump’s presidency.
I posted this 5 times a day. 🫤
Instead of focusing on marches and protests that have clearly failed, we needed to incentivize voting for Kamala more to other people. We, as a country, failed to do that, therefore look where we are now.
Because he'll do it to everyone else, if not.
If he's not removed, he will destroy the US in every conceivable way.
Back then, as a grad student, I had hundreds of Immoral Majority buttons printed ... wish I still had them to give to Republicans. Now true...
From the margins to the center, indeed.
It all about money...The firewalls are down...
Barney is now the..
#SECDEF
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