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Never forget that Gavin Newsom is a transphobe and you should never vote for him.

I have a hard time trusting doctors. I think it goes back to an early misdiagnosis I received. The first doctor I ever met told me I was a boy. He really messed that up.

"Are we really a Menace? Oh yes, but not the way people think. We are a transgressive threat to the patriarchal gender binary whose apex is occupied by white conservative Christian males." [email protected]

What we're currently living through is a patriarchal panic reaction. Our society came a little too close to acknowledging trans people as not merely quirky zoo exhibits to gawk at on the margins of society. Too close to acknowledging our humanity. The response to this has been sheer terror.

If you think that trans people are getting our rights ripped away "because the left went too far," you're a moron. Everything happening to us today was written up and planned by the Family Research Council in 2015. The document is still public. It's all there. www.frc.org/transgender#...

a thing that will be a problem for trans people based on my workplace experiences of the past 10 days: cis people don’t know what’s happening to trans people right now and if you are given the opportunity to try to tell them, they don’t believe you. again.

(tapping the sign) characterising loudly queerphobic conservatives as self-loathing and closeted, whether "satirically" (lol) or otherwise, just feeds into the already pervasive cultural conception of queerness as something dirty and shameful

Techbros fantasize about "transhumanism", transsexual people are actually doing it.

I understand that many trans issues are unpopular among the broader voter base. The problem is you cannot cleanly separate the ones you might feel are acceptable to give up and still have us participate in society.

This whole "It's just a distraction" line of thinking needs to die. They are genocidal bastards hellbent on eradicating the trans community. It's not a god damn distraction. This is what they stand for and you're running cover for it by minimizing it.

if you’re cis, please stop right now and think about how many other cis people you know are up in arms over these executive orders trying make our existence illegal how many? because there aren’t enough trans people to fix this, YOU CIS PEOPLE HAVE TO and the resounding silence is heartbreaking

We all know the nazis came after trans people and burned the books of a research institute on us. That was 1933. It took six more years for war to start, in 1939. six years where that was not a line crossed hard enough for most people to care. Are you going to wait six years?

Your regular reminder that the first known clinic to offer gender-affirming surgeries was … destroyed by Nazis. In 1933. (Magnus Hirschfeld’s Institut für Sexualwissenschaft.) They always come for trans people first.

The mask is off with these fucking fascists. Trump is calling trans military members dishonorable liars, is shutting down gov't funded programs to try to root out trans people, and red states across the country are following suit. There's barely any pretense to their hateful policy anymore.

The most important thing about this order is that the Trump is attempting to disqualify transgender people from the country's largest employer because he believes we are inherently deceitful, a lie used by men in criminal courts to justify murdering us.

"Years ago, I recognized my kinship with all living things, and I made up my mind that I was not one bit better than the meanest on earth... While there is a lower class, I am in it, while there is a criminal element, I am of it, and while there is a soul in prison, I am not free..." Eugene V Debs

For my @msnbc.com column this week, I wrote about Trump's executive order attempting to push trans people back in the closet. In short: I am not afraid and I am not going back. www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnb...

Look, we tried to warn people. At this point, the only way out is through. Trump will precipitate a collapse and only then can we rebuild towards a better future. Our goal is to minimize the number of people we lose along the way. Build community, help others. Resilience is all we have.

I hate the “haha everyone is a woman now because of the EO” joking. It feels like transphobia to me. This is especially true when people use it as pretense to misgender cis people they don’t like. The world is hard enough right now without “allies” doing thinly (or not so thinly) veiled transphobia.

Use Signal to talk about protests Use Signal to talk about your wordle score Use Signal to talk about abortion Use Signal to talk about your mom's knitting club Use Signal to talk about parties Use Signal to talk about gender affirming care Use Signal to talk about the weather Use Signal

I’m so angry that I Saw the TV Glow AND Challengers both didn’t get Oscar nominations. Like, two of the best pieces of queer art in decades, but no - we’re gonna nominate a racist transphobic movie about a Mexican trans woman written by a 72-year old French cis guy.

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hello cis peoples here is a handy chart for how these new policies will impact trans women lil crime -> local jail -> V-coding and raped to death by cellmate medium crime -> prison -> V-coding and raped to death by cellmate big crime -> fed prison -> executed per new DOJ death penalty guidelines

i hate to be that girl but we're gonna need to really quickly move past complaining that everything is "unconstitutional" or whatever and start talking about what we are actually going to do to materially resist fascist attacks and defend marginalized communities. laws are fake. lives are real.

Rest assured that one day, they will make some really terrible movies about us that will inspire some very boring people.

Somehow today I’m supposed to do my 4-5hr commute; work 8hrs; see the sun rise and set; see no friends; spend a scant few moments with my wife and kids. Try to pretend this day isn’t happening. I’ve already tried and failed to ignore it. I’m heartbroken. I’m scared. I’m tired.

HRT should be available over the counter without a prescription if for no other reason than doing so would result in some of the most unhinged commercials to ever air on TV.

I feel so foolish, I should have gone for the HRT that makes me awesome at women's sports instead of the one that makes me winded and sore after constructing a particleboard bookshelf. What was I thinking?

I did something different for #totallyTrans this week Pleas let me know what you think splendorqueer.com/eight-of-bir...

I don’t take HRT to be valid, I take HRT to be hot and piss off conservatives.

US people, write or call your senators and urge them to oppose S9 (HR28). This bill dehumanizes trans people and begins writing us out of the law. It also puts cis gender women and girls at greater risk of exploitation and abuse. We can’t sit on the sidelines. Please, call or write!!!

one week left of rich pundit jerkoffs blaming leftists, trans people, asylees, & other marginalized groups for things sucking ass before making a huge pivot to being valiant warriors against fascism (with shirts about that for sale) and eagerly boosting leftist causes as something they always loved

i think we should have more problematic transsexual lesbian vampires who procure E from drinking blood