Might just fuck around and acknowledge that the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.
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I would submit, that it can also be a work around to get past the sadness in themselves. If you make others around you happy. And then empathize with that happiness. It works as a real pick me up. It's how I got through most of my work days.
Carers are often people who had a shitty childhood, for much the same reason. Also, both groups are often the first to recognize when others are trying to fake getting by.
I think that’s right, never thought about it like that before. At one of the worst periods of my life I used to tell a lot of jokes. When my world got better the jokes stopped.
So true. When I was at college I was in a very dark and low place. The staff told some of the other students, I think hoping they would keep an eye on me. Most couldn't understand how I could be so depressed as I was the class clown, keeping everyone else up.
It's like putting a mask on.
Not disagreeing. Just wanted to say I try my best to help others find joy and be happy because I am wired to be a provider and I have seen/experienced the literal worst life has to offer. Today I am doing just fine. I have an amazing family and I am doing just fine. 🍻
See Robin Williams, the internal torture that man must of suffered yet he made millions laugh daily, we're good at hiding it, I do know that, we dont talk about it as its too painful, so lets laugh instead, or tears will flow.
The best people I know have always been through some really intense stuff. The ones ignorant of what that's like always seem to accidentally be steering the ship straight into it, then getting confused why they get so much push back
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More like underappreciated.
I've always been on
the side of the underdog, long before I became one.
It's like putting a mask on.
who get the most out of life"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wx4Gfj39Mg
I wish I was near to give you a fist bump then a big uncomfortable man hug.
And never, NEVER, NEVER (i need bigger caps) feel worthless.
I wish you every and all happy. You are such a great, intelligent dude
And that is so so true.