Whether it’s at college or a difficult job, I feel like everybody needs to have that moment in their young adulthood where they realize “oh man, I actually don’t know very much at all”
Comments
Log in with your Bluesky account to leave a comment
I’d say go to grad school for this, but a percentage of those folks go absolutely the wrong way with it and conclude that all of life is a grad seminar and they’re here to educate the rest of us.
Most, if not all of my jobs, including my current one, qualify as this on some level, no matter how long I am employed at the job or how good I seem to get at it
Funny I didn’t have mine until middle age. I was soooo full of piss and vinegar in my young adulthood. I fucking knew everything and I saw shit most people only dream about. Then I settled down and well, settled.
Something that helped me recently was, “oh, *nobody* really has it better together than me.” Actual light bulb moment and it was such a relief. None of us know very much at all and we’re all muddling along doing our best.
When I told my grandfather I was going into engineering he sat me down and gave me a Talk about how I should take the time to learn how my designs would affect the people in manufacturing, install, service, end-use, and repair, or else I had no business being an engineer. Such valuable advice.
Socrates was on to something when he said the greatest wisdom lies in the knowledge that we know nothing.
Confronting our own ignorance is the door the knowledge.
Once you know you don't know you can start learning.
When you're a kid, you know nothing. It's all exciting an new.
When you're a teenager you know EVERYTHING! How can no one else see this!
That stage in adulthood you describe is very important, because it makes you work harder to try and at least know SOME things as well as possible...
Graduate school and also knowing a single mother at the same time basically revealed how little I know about the world and I should just shut up and observe other people who are working it out better than me
This is why the concept of working as a collective to solve problems is so important! If my single use bootstrap falls apart, I want to have people in my life with some cobbler training and repay them with spreadsheet/PPT work (This is a fair exchange, I'm not taking questions).
While it's a message that doesn't sell well with parents, for understandable reasons, I used to say at admissions open-houses that I view the education I provide as an act of faith. I hope I am planting a seed of life-long learning.
Freshman year of college for me. I was one of the smartest people in a very small high school. Then I went to college and realized "Hoo Boy! I am not as smart as I thought I was."
YES. I tried to describe it once as that moment the universe just sorta rips your heart out, and you realize you’ve earned none of the confidence you had as a teenager.
i moved to S.C. at a pivotal point.... learning, definitively, that there is TONS'a stuff you dont know, regardless of degrees etc. not that i've had them. but. "americans keep starting over, its like a matter of faith you can do it" well, you learn stuff, from scratch, again and again
I had one of those at eleven, while staying with out of state relatives without my parents, and another at fourteen when I was hospitalized. Those were definitely ones I strove to not repeat.
Comments
Be smartness but also high awareness of how life works can both work . I actually think they are just different kinds of intelligence.
grad school disabused me of those notions
I keep opening doors on stuff I had no idea even existed. Oh, that's something else I know nothing about.
Confronting our own ignorance is the door the knowledge.
Once you know you don't know you can start learning.
When you're a teenager you know EVERYTHING! How can no one else see this!
That stage in adulthood you describe is very important, because it makes you work harder to try and at least know SOME things as well as possible...
The temple priest asked him what the purpose of pilgrimage was.
Fayan told him, "I don't know."
The priest said, "Not knowing is closest to it."
Fayan had an awakening.
🧡 🙏 🙂
Some like me are ignorant of most things.
The trick I find is to meet it head on and not attempt to bluff it out.
And my life is just a series of events that show me how much I have to learn. It doesn’t stop.
Ugh