Hi folks. I very rarely address drama these days, but after five years of recurring videos about me and recent concerning comments on a particular issue, I feel I need to explain my side. I appreciate you taking the time to understand my perspective ❤️ docs.google.com/document/d/1... - ThreadSky

sarahz.bsky.social • 2 days ago

Hi folks. I very rarely address drama these days, but after five years of recurring videos about me and recent concerning comments on a particular issue, I feel I need to explain my side. I appreciate you taking the time to understand my perspective ❤️

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JJbItg5LUGOF1lIMRVKsT7b4Zx6ilNuzHs71NC3-HNM/edit?usp=sharing

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innuendostudios.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I'm so sorry, this sounds like a nightmare

legendofaustyn.bsky.social•2 days ago

Mistakes happen, sorry this has been the response T.T

princesmweekes.bsky.social•1 day ago

🩷🩷

kindcore.bsky.social•1 hour ago

this is so wretched why do people not understand the concept of taking a chill pill

funkmclovin.bsky.social•2 days ago

i'm sorry this misunderstanding has been taken advantage of. hopefully things blow over

katrinathelamia.bsky.social•1 day ago

Sounds like you were far too nice to the creator of Dashcon... and they are far worse than anything already said about them

Between this, and getting sued by Andrew Hussie, people keep really showing their true selves in response to you

alex-fiddes.bsky.social•2 days ago

Ah, internet drama. Not sure what caused anonymous to address the question to "Lochlan" in the first place, but given the response it was a perfectly reasonable assumption from you. Sorry you're getting stick for it, some fun aggressive gambits might cheer you up 🙏

plainoldchair.bsky.social•5 hours ago

I'm trying to remember if Lochlan appeared in Strange Aeons' "DashCon: An Extensive Oral History" - does anyone know?

plainoldchair.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Good lord it looks like they did. This puts that video in a bit of a different perspective for me, or least makes me question their motivations more, and whether or not Strange Aeons was aware of any of this

allisonpregler.bsky.social•2 days ago

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Infuriating that no one is allowed to make mistakes, apologize, or move forward. Especially when it was a genuine mix up.

ladyemily.nebula.tv•2 days ago

💙 love you, Sarah

cheyennelin.bsky.social•2 days ago

Sending love and support your way ❤️‍🩹

frozenquetzal.bsky.social•2 days ago

<3 sending psychic hug energy <3 Sorry people can't be normal on the internet.

thefuckistevvs.bsky.social•2 days ago

the fact that this weirdo keeps making videos and commenting and all that shit when you literally havent even said a Thing about it for Years is insane. does this person have Nothing better to do

ladybangbang.bsky.social•1 day ago

Projection is a hell of a thing. People who are emotionally immature need to pretend everyone else is just as immature as they are so they can justify their own refusal to grow up.
What sucks is that there are just enough other immature people to have them convinced their behavior is normal.

ladybangbang.bsky.social•1 day ago

Though I do find it hilarious that tiktokers who fled over here after the ban kept saying everyone here was mean. Meanwhile, that comment section is the norm for the platform they frequent. 🙃

jennygeist.bsky.social•11 hours ago

This is such an inane thing to be hung up on five years later, good lord. I'm sorry you have to put up with this.

sarahz.bsky.social•6 hours ago

The situation has taken a turn that leaves me genuinely anxious for my safety. Lochlan is now actively responding to comments discussing my real-life employment— I work in a small field that makes me easy to identify, which they now know explicitly. I'm at a genuine loss for what to do about this.

sarahz.bsky.social•6 hours ago

When someone with a significant platform not only permits but participates in revealing my private life details, it crosses a serious line. I've always been careful about separating YT from my personal life for safety reasons, and seeing those boundaries deliberately eroded is deeply alarming.

isilven.bsky.social•6 hours ago

At this point, you may need to contact a lawyer. I am so sorry this is happening.

vgdvgirl.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I hope this gets resolved soon. You deserve better than this.

ladyemily.nebula.tv•6 hours ago

Trying to criticize you for not communicating and for your fanbase supposedly harassing them while also bringing this up numerous times over the years, showing little interest in actually engaging with you, and encouraging fans to post invasive and harsh comments about you and to you is… interesting

maxiemoosie.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Sarah’s response is frankly far more restrained than I would be in her shoes.

I think any pretext of good faith on the other person’s part has gone out the window. You gotta stand up to bullies.

Do what you feel is best. Love both your videos!

cryptotheism.bsky.social•5 hours ago

This is genuinely nuts and I hope you're doing okay

bradleygalbraith.bsky.social•5 hours ago

What a crazy way to learn that YouTube is just a side gig for you. Hoping for a happy resolution :(

reachartwork.bsky.social•5 hours ago

i will help pay for a lawyer if necessary to the best of my ability. you may have to be the mean one here and C&D them

sarahz.bsky.social•5 hours ago

That is very kind ❤️ I don't think what they are doing is illegal or actionable, though I could be wrong

digirap.bsky.social•4 hours ago

I think at the very least you are within your right to send a cease and desist ? You don’t have to have an attorney involved in that. You run the risk of stoking the fire with that though but if you’re feeling unsafe, it’s certainly an option

niallsanderson.bsky.social•4 hours ago

Maybe not illegal, but the comments talking about your irl job probably violate TikTok’s terms of service. Definitely report those if you haven’t already

therealprocyon.bsky.social•2 hours ago

In the Netherlands doxxing is definitely illegal, please consult with a lawyer about this

therealprocyon.bsky.social•2 hours ago

Especially considering it might be illegal depending on whether or not you get harassed or might be illegal in and of itself. Please be careful and stay safe

ryfangor.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I'm so sorry this is happening Sarah, please stay safe and I hope that things get better soon

orangerrific.bsky.social•6 hours ago

does your work have an HR person/department? Would you feel comfortable letting them know about it, just so they can be on their guard??
Also, I’d try to find a lawyer that would at least do a free consultation for you!!

maxiemoosie.bsky.social•5 hours ago

It really depends on the company. I had a friend years ago who was doxxed, and her company didn’t protect her. They actually reprimanded her for being doxxed, something about hurting the company, I don’t know.

Sometimes it’s best to do nothing, but that’s Sarah’s call. I’d hope they’d protect her!

kirvyx.bsky.social•6 hours ago

This is straight up disturbing and basically ilegal, best you could try to do is getting support to shut them down but i have no idea if that would be a good idea

wrydave.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Reach out to local veterans who are not MAGA. They should be relatively easy to find. We’re not putting up with MAGA bullshit. If you need help, DM me.

magnificentjosh.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Man, this must be so unsettling to have hanging over you. I'm sorry its happening.

fmylife.bsky.social•23 hours ago

Stay strong ❤️

orangerrific.bsky.social•2 days ago

tumblr users Try to Log Off Challenge IMPOSSIBLE

(not referring to u btw, but like. petty mean girl parasocial obsessive shit like this is why i left tumblr like 10 years ago)

ladybangbang.bsky.social•1 day ago

The only Tumblr fandom I'm involved in is Dragon Age, and it's mostly been fine. Then, right before Veilguard dropped, I made a post about a Solas fan theory that tons of people to that point had, and someone got super bent about it and wouldn't let it go. It's so bizarre how some folks act.

cortial.bsky.social•2 days ago

dude that SUCKS!!!! Mad respect for you and how you handle everything- I know it can’t be easy but you make it seem so with grace.

mediumdani.bsky.social•2 days ago

❤️

cheerijessie.bsky.social•17 hours ago

Shows how little I pay attention to TikTok. Lochlan's an acquaintance of mine because of conventions. Haven't talked to her offline since '21, but I wasn't aware she spent much time on this at all anymore beyond being asked about it. Weird.

jjwauthor.bsky.social•1 day ago

It baffles me that they think it’s worth a five year ‘fight’.

foldablehuman.bsky.social•2 days ago

I’m at a complete loss for what harm was caused by “reached out for comment but didn’t hear back” or what difference she thinks it would have made had the DM gone to the correct account. She doesn’t even appear contest the actual details.

uncertaincat.bsky.social•1 day ago

Probably because they're making this into a scandal for views. The content machine churns

foldablehuman.bsky.social•1 day ago

I watched her TikToks on the subject and my god this lady needs to find an entire meadow of grass and touch it.

amandawtwong.bsky.social•2 days ago

drmajalis.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I honestly think you might need to contact an attorney, this treatment from L is absolutely unacceptable

I'm so sorry you're being forced to deal with this

themagicconch19.bsky.social•6 hours ago

Hi Sarah - I'm really sorry that this is happening. As someone who's also experienced attempted doxxing, it can be a frightening experience. Please know that there are so many of us who think you are a lovely person and appreciate you. Let us know if there's anything else we can do to support you.

reziorenji.bsky.social•2 days ago

Man, what the fuck, that's messed up

meerareads.bsky.social•1 day ago

It’s wild that she’s basically engaging in a one-sided beef after five years. She thinks this isn’t Google Doc worthy but somehow *is* five years worth of videos worthy.

That’s absolutely bananas.

mistakrabs.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Pure drama farming, she's found a way to farm engagement and make a buck and doesn't want to give it up so the only way forward is to keep pushing to keep the audience engaged.

alysterjohn.bsky.social•1 day ago

If it helps, these videos were never served to me and I will absolutely never watch them.

claracatte.bsky.social•2 days ago

Huh. You made an honest mistake and owned up to it and fixed it/cleared it up from what I'm reading. So I don't....see...why they're still making a stink about this YEARS later? Like???? All they're doing is making themselves look like an asshole now. 🤔

mayugioh.bsky.social•2 days ago

there’s something very ironic about the literal creator of dashcon continuously going after someone for a mistake they made years ago

grampaglasses.bsky.social•2 days ago

That's pretty wild yeah, sorry you've been dealing with this!

gayhousecat.bsky.social•2 days ago

If you're going to be a bitch, be a Major Bitch because at least you have rank in the Bitch Battalion.

Also, maybe the internet was a mistake.

ladybangbang.bsky.social•1 day ago

Humans were the mistake. The internet just makes that easier to notice. Lol.

jharlowr.bsky.social•2 days ago

Sorry this is happening to you, this seems like a deeply weird fixation on their part.

outletonmychest.bsky.social•1 day ago

Wow.

How very gross and pathetic.

Actually awful of them.

I wish platform responsibility was more of a priority for people.

But I guess it's about saying, not about doing. Cool shit. 💀

wildlystrollingben.bsky.social•6 hours ago

I think this kind of rivalry is the equivalent to a Hello Fresh ad. It’s a way to make a channel successful. But it’s not really worth paying attention to.

lilactransform.bsky.social•1 day ago

I'm sorry Sarah, that person needs to get a life

occamsaturn.bsky.social•2 days ago

people really love to create fake beef and then draaaag it out for years for no reason I guess

lolacoaster.bsky.social•2 days ago

This has to be some form of clout chasing, but is there really an audience that’ll be drawn in by this drama??? It’s so baseless, there’s nothing really interesting here

nbisbo.bsky.social•2 days ago

No the issue is the dashcon person is a "Never my fault" type that blames others for her mistakes (or so this shows)

spagnum-moss.bsky.social•11 hours ago

There's definitely people on tumblr who will take any flimsy excuse to hate her, from what I've seen they're anti-ship people but I could totally be wrong

mistakrabs.bsky.social•5 hours ago

Don't need any real evidence if you just lie, and let your commenters add more fallacious fuel to the fire. Remember the vast majority of the people watching her videos on tiktok are never going to see the other side, and because of how our brains work they're already primed to not believe evidence

biscotti.bsky.social•1 day ago

such a weird way to respond to what was a complete misunderstanding. I'm so sorry this is going on rn

morrisnormal.bsky.social•2 days ago

Challenge him to a chess death match

yetmorebees.bsky.social•2 days ago

wait you have a job that’s not YouTube/Nebula?

boredompeejeterson.bsky.social•2 days ago

Tbh even that information is really none of our business

yetmorebees.bsky.social•2 days ago

yea, it just wasn’t something I considered before

boredompeejeterson.bsky.social•2 days ago

Yeah, I didn't mean to blame you. I hadn't thought about it at all. But it still is probably more info than we would have had that person not mentioned it

tattletale.bsky.social•8 hours ago

absolutely sucks you've had to deal with this. hope things look up on this front

lazerzz.bsky.social•2 days ago

It’s wild how seemingly anyone can just be dogpiled. You don’t even have to have really done anything & people will still hate you. The comments on that recent TikTok are obscene, I can totally relate to that feeling of have hundreds of people making false judgements on your character. Shit sucks.

landlordeater69.bsky.social•2 days ago

sounds like the creator of dashcon might be a bit of an opportunist

fiendfold.bsky.social•2 days ago

big if true

itspenguin.ca•2 days ago

That’s all kinds of fucked up and I’m sorry you’re being subjected to it. Love your content, keep your head up.

martin-fernwood.bsky.social•2 days ago

Ugh, that sucks. I wish there was a good way to handle this sort of thing. From other cases I've seen, it seems that neither ignoring it nor addressing makes a difference when someone is in this deep.

waffelnhaus.bsky.social•1 day ago

That's really weird to beat a dead horse like that if there's seemingly nothing that needs to be corrected for the record.

shaghik.bsky.social•2 days ago

Man this is pissing me off. Also pissed me off when I saw the TikTok recently but i didn't realize it had even gotten big enough for there to be a need for you to address it. They mentioned that you had apparently been mean to them on Twitter and that immediately seemed like bs since if they

shaghik.bsky.social•2 days ago

haven't stopped talking about it for 5 years, no way in hell they wouldn't have had screenshots or anything if you'd actually said anything inappropriate. Absolute bullshit and I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

andicalico.bsky.social•2 days ago

that's what made me come here to check if sarah had said anything about the situation. the mean tweets claim with no screenshots + saying "she was a huge b*tch to me" while showing screenshots where sarah sounds mostly neutral? it all seems like just tone policing turned drama for some reason

brentosaur.bsky.social•2 days ago

What a weird thing to spend so much time making videos about. Sorry you’re going through this.

niallsanderson.bsky.social•2 days ago

Truly bizarre behaviour on their part to hurl all sorts of insults over a mistake that happened 5+ years ago. Some people are too petty for their own good

ryfangor.bsky.social•2 days ago

Sending nothing but love and well wishes your way yo. Sorry you're going through this, stay safe, take care and I hope this post helps calm things down ❤️

scarletbunny.bsky.social•2 days ago

So horrible 😞

zyllable.bsky.social•1 day ago

Yikes, I'm sorry you're dealing with that!

beckyhop13.bsky.social•2 days ago

That one commenter who outed your goddamn DAY JOB had my jaw dropping. You don't do that! No internet drama is worth outing someone's real job details!

uncertaincat.bsky.social•2 days ago

Sorry you're dealing with this. I blame the content machine feeding on made up controversy

corvidoccult.bsky.social•2 days ago

I really hope people stop using this non-issue against you soon ! Nothing necessitates harassment, especially not a simple research mistake

The internet is a scary and disheartening place sometimes :/

belleofball.bsky.social•2 days ago

That's weird. What's she's doing is bad weird. Anyways, love your work. I found the recent video on narcissism really informative and I love the one you did about my favorite reality baking show: Crime Scene Kitchen.

peidrumdad.bsky.social•2 days ago

Sorry this is happening to you

tilebacksplash.bsky.social•2 days ago

I will be honest, I am not a fan of your videos, purely for a difference in opinion over trivial things. But when I saw the video on tiktok and dug deeper into it, it is a bit freaky how obsessed she is with painting the entire thing as you bullying her and she is just an innocent victim.

tilebacksplash.bsky.social•2 days ago

Its pretty sad that one event when she was 15(?) has completely consumed her entire life, through no fault but her own. I am genuinely sorry, the comments were pretty hateful and nasty and nobody deserves that.

nbisbo.bsky.social•2 days ago

I think she might have a "lol cow farms" troll base hounding her. Of course she still is deeply flawed and lacks much in accounting for herself

phyphor.one-dash.org•2 days ago

I am so sorry that people are choosing to be awful to you, and I hope that it ends soon.

renegadecut.bsky.social•2 days ago

sounds like an honest mistake and misunderstanding. sorry you're dealing with this. lochlan should probably just let this go. jeez.

mysteriousgrayart.bsky.social•2 days ago

The internet is the world's biggest, deadliest, shittiest game of telephone where sometimes, for whatever reason, people will hear the word just fine but warp it anyway and cause a nuclear shitstorm that affects real people's lives. It's exhausting just to watch, let alone be the victim.

lindsayellis.bsky.social•1 day ago

Maybe besides the point but the view count on their videos about you vs the view count for the rest of their videos on TikTok explains a lot about their continued fixation imo

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