Yes. A big part of why so many young men are turning to destructive, amoral, misogynistic, bigoted, selfish, self-absorbed, blame-everyone-else ideologies is because that's what their dads believe in.
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What's wrong with the GenX dudes? That's where the big problem lies! I blame a steady diet of Joe Rogan/Alex Jones/Jordan Peterson/Andrew Tate type of bullshit.
This reminds me of that baboon troop where the highly aggressive adult males, who always ate before the females, all died after eating poisonous trash, and the next generation of male baboons who were raised exclusively by females turned out very peaceful and well-adjusted.
There's also a dramatic disparity here between young women and women of parenting age. If young men are internalizing this stuff from their fathers, they're also internalizing it from their mothers.
Young women are of parenting age too. The difference is between single women and married women. The more likely a woman's fate is tied to a man, the less likely they are to be lefties.
I think you’re right. I’m single with friends and family in the parenting age, and I’m surprised to see my own generation of women fall into the same inequality in their relationships and parenting as their own mothers, where they do the majority of the housework and childcare while working a job
They're being raised by women that never stood up and suffered in silence while working full time and shouldering the household & childcare. They expect that of their future wives amd resent it's not happening.
It’s not terribly hard. It does require disengaging with your particular peccadillo for a moment. Listening, engaging giving advice if needed. Being kind… Fark. Up to you fellas… don’t be a cunt.
That along with 40 odd years of hearing "greed is good", being told to get their bag above all else, and thinking "'Atlas Shrugged' didn't suck... Sure I didn't finish it but it was pretty good up to where I stopped. Maybe an amazing movie adaptation will make all these losers understand"
Makes sense, especially when you consider the decrease in socialization overall. This would increase the impact of your parents belief systems on you because you have less to compare it to.
Also the "so many young men" framing is misleading. The youngest group of men is LEAST likely to support Trump - the relative gap, compared to older generations, is just bigger because young women's support is even lower.
Sure, but give 'em a few years in the capitalist meat grinder and plenty of White dudes will seek the protection, grievance, and deference MAGA promises.
Unless, of course, today's resegregation movement
successfully whittles down all competition...🤷🏻♂️
I regret to inform you that they were/are. My HS bi boyfriend & gay friends were in legit fear for their safety. "Gay", "pussy" & "r*tard" were thrown around without thought. Me & my friends were sexually harassed & assaulted by our male peers w/o repercussion. Racial slurs lobbed like snowballs.
True. The boomers did go from the summer of love to boomers, after all.
I guess it's just our turn now.
Ever will it be, I guess. But I had really hoped we'd be different.
Idk… I think many were. They’re just more angry and entitled than they were in their 20s. Wives left them (70% of women leave marriages) and they need therapy but refuse to believe they are part of the problem.
25 years ago they could get it up and had hair on their head
They can't deny their impotence now. They see it everyday. They feel irrelevant (although that's just the feeling of occasional absence of their ubiquitous privilege)
GenX men are not the men they used to be and they're hella mad about it
Most of those I know have moved right over the last 30 years... working years.
It's about human value, and we've all been taught who's valued in this country. To not live up to our own expectations is a tough blow, so they vote to hurt others to feel better AND improve their prospects & standing.✌🏻
The ones I know are incredibly accomplished and valued. And yet, it's still not good enough to offer even tepid criticism of Trump (unless it comes first with "Biden/Obama started it").
It's wild. I left home, went to uni, traveled a little, worked in a big city then moved back to the rural area 25 years later
it was surreal
I had assumed my classmates would have matured and evolved but they were just like our parents at that age. Like time stood still in these conservative towns
I’m somewhat surprised that both my brother and brother-in-law, who are both educated at university level, would defend and support Trump in discussions. They both feel threathened by wokeness, that they feel has “come to far” and they don’t acknowledge that we don’t all have equal opportunities
Women in my generation have stayed married to some gawd awful men while working full time, taking care of the kids, and doing the majority of the household chores. Men got praised for keeping the yard mowed.
When my mom tried to get some structure for equitable house work tasks (after they had an empty nest) they ended up getting a service that deep cleans the house once a month bc my dad couldn't keep up. It's probably closer to equitable now though they tend to have different chores.
I've saw that a good bit- Hiring the heavy cleaning done. Not sure what happens if a recession hits. Covid caused a lot of relationships to crumble and they couldn't even really leave at the time.
I see that as a bit of a bandaid solution. Sure, they might split chores (- mental load?) more evenly by farming out his share to (almost always) another woman, but it doesn’t address the sexism /disrespect of men expecting women to clean up after them.
My ex father in law was immensely proud that even after 2 kids and 4 grandkids, he never once changed a diaper. My ex mil told me I should be thrilled that her son was so willing to change his kids' diapers and occasionally did the dishes. I thought she was joking at first... she was not.
My ex's mum once told me that they thought I was "too hard on him" (he had a drink problem, but not under my roof). I went to visit her after we split and he moved back with them. She said FIL said I deserved a medal for putting up with him as long as I did. I did get the warm fuzzies.
Yes! They think they’re good fathers and partners because they take out the trash, cut the lawn, occasionally unload the dishwasher, and play with the kids. It’s why the “you haven’t even thanked us and show some gratitude” hit hard for many women.
Here’s a take that’s going to get me annihilated: a lot of young men in the past 2 generations have been raised without dads (including my own). I KNOW—NOT ALL MEN abandon the their kids, but a significant number do. Boys are looking for models of masculinity wherever they can find them.
If they are gonna use generation age range then they need to have the correct age range for each generation to get the accurate %! They are always tryn to include 60-64 with gen x & they are not! It’s a bit misleading. They should also break down by race cause we know it’s majority of white people!
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Some of the results at the upper age levels result from non-white people not living as long, meaning white people (who are more likely to be Trump supporters) make up more of that cohort than other cohorts....
Some kids need to make the jump to accept that they are smarter than their fathers. They can accept advice about which tool to use for this or that without too many questions. But when it comes to politics, many follow-up questions are required for why fathers hold this or that political view.
I'm glad someone posted this and ty for posting it. I grabbed that data the other week and I've been meaning to write about how everyone is misinterpreting it.
Young women are just way left of everyone on these issues and moving faster than anyone really has come to terms with.
And in fact, one of the reasons that right wingers have been making these very desperate all-in lunges to seize power is because they know young women are leaving their culture and not returning. A generation is basically lost to them.
It's a common talking point in hard-line religious circles
I too am ashamed but not surprised. It’s like re-living the Reagan years - this is Reagan (greed) on steroids. Gen Xers either suffered or profited under Reagan - subsequent policies ended that suffering - here we go fucking again. Reagan was greedy - Orange Piece de Resistance is greedy & EVIL
I came here to blame Reagan too. But related to Reagan, there was a huge push to re-legitimize every terrible idea or practice during the 80s & 90s - sweatshops, chain gangs, company towns, etc. Tons of "Your grandparents were right about ___" type articles on race and sex. So much junk science.
The Atlantic Magazine routinely had articles like "Dan Quayle was Right" (he attacked single parent families) and they had one on how Abe Lincoln would end abortion. The NYTimes hired two sweatshop apologists (who are still on staff now). This was the birth of the reactionary centrist mediascape.
Legitimate academics pushed back and their objections were dutifully quoted so as to appear balanced and objective, but the overall tone and goal of these articles was to boost and popularize the long-debunked bad science by framing it as another sexy new controversy. Rinse & repeat.
I think a lot of our problems got hidden because we were pre-social media. People don’t know that the handful of women/poc journalists online in the 90s got death and rape threats and doxxing too, it’s just it went to our emails and our land lines and since nobody cared to cover it, it was invisible
I'm not saying that Generation Jones is large enough and right-wing enough to explain that gender disparity in the 45-to-65 cohort, but I keep seeing that cohort described as Gen X, and it's not. It's Gen X plus one half of Generation Jones.
It would be helpful to see the data for that survey, specifically the number of participants by age and gender in the 45-to-65 cohort, which comprises Gen X plus about half of Gen Jones. How many survey respondents were 45 to 60, and how many were 61 to 65?
I get that this may sound like a #NotAllGenX thing, but it's not. The fact is that journalists are rarely good at reporting on survey findings, and accuracy in presenting data is better than chasing clicks with generational warfare silliness.
Generations aren't really a thing. They were invented by Nielsen to sell ads. Differences across age can and do exist, but lumping people into generational brackets like this is a product of not having enough data to do better, a situation that's not really the case anymore.
Except when it's profitable to engage in bullshit generational warfare.
(TBH - I'm usually all for the shit-stirring with generational stereotypes. It just bugs me when people do it so sloppily, like I've been seeing around this survey.)
I hate seeing that my age+gender cohort is the Trump cohort. But I went to college with these assholes, so I'm not exactly shocked. Just deeply frustrated that they really didn't change from way back when. A bunch of shitty Alex P Keatons (not the actor, though).
I have a theory that MJF was able to do such a good job as Keaton because he understood that the character was a parody and not *supposed* to be a role model
I’m a Gen X female and I am definitely not part of the 43% nor all my group of female friends who are as well and my acquaintances. Where are they getting these numbers? Gen Z seems very accurate though.
Let’s put some of the blame where it belongs maybe if these people get the fuck off phones and social media put away the damn video games get the hell outside and interact with others just because parent might be that way doesn’t make you the same alot of people are this way not just young
why is everyone looking at this chart and talking about what's making young men conservative when their Trump approval is basically the same as almost every other group?
why not ask what is making young women (the clear outliers here) so much more liberal than everyone else?
This is starting to turn into the Sliders episode where women just had enough and took power from the men because of violence.. the part of the episode that was not fully addressed? The part where the women were throwing bricks in windows threatening with bombs if people attempted to change things.
What this graph tells me is that people are making this story about young men but it’s not about young men. It’s about young women. Young men are the least favorable to trump but not super different from older men. Young women buck the trend from older women radically
I'm so puzzled, because the GenX that I *thought* that I was in would see through Trump's bullshit instantly, and it turns out that we're among the most gullible generations ever.
He's the slimy rich asshole that was a trope in every piece of our population fiction, who we were always happy to cheer when he got his comeuppance, and now they all joined that person's side.
I saw a post (I think it was probably Denny) with a comment that essentially said "Gen X grew up believing that they were The Breakfast Club's Bender, but it turns out that most were always closer to Steff McKee from Pretty in Pink".
Generational cycles are tough to break, but acknowledging the problem is the first step towards building a more equitable future. How can we better support young men in finding healthier role models and challenging harmful beliefs?
And social media, plus male social circles, seems to condition them to be reactive and combative toward young women and their clear (and understandable) disdain for what conservatives are pushing.
My 21yr old was raised by a single mom. A feminist mom. And he slid right into the Joe Rogan belief that white men are the most marginalized now…I was so shocked!!! He’s slowly stopped believing the bs but don’t discount the podcast loons that spoon fed this narrative
It's interesting that 45 to 64 covers everyone who was a baby to 19 years old when Reagan was first elected in 1980, and I would bet cash money that men whose formative years were during the Reagan administration are far more likely to be pro-Trump than anyone else.
Millennials are older. We would expect still young Gen Z men to be much more liberal as a cohort, the fact they’re even close to the older generations indicates the shift.
And as a millennial son of boomer parents, a lot of boomers were hippies at one point. Gen X seemed disaffected from jump.
Or they're getting their news and political punditry from way worse sources than even their dads did (Rogan, whatever male podcasters/influencers/TikTok b.s. Gen Z tunes into)
Not always. The number of parents i know who have had to intervene when boys get caught up on the radicalization crap online. Parents -dads in particular-need to intervene on this bs. Especially when they weren’t raised like that. I think many parents are ignorant of the online radicalization piece
Gen Z guys leaning far-right will have a bit of a problem with partnering, though. Only half as much women seem to lean far-right and I guess leaning far-right is kind of a disqualifying attitude for them.
Considering recent scientific data I'd rather expect that a lot of them would decide against a partner/family in the first place under the given circumstances. And I can't blame them.
A friend clearing out her parents house found a few early 90s teen horror books and holy shit. The misogyny (and underage predation) is insane!
The X split is women who saw US culture get progressively more accurate about women as they grew into adulthood, and men whose ideal man peaked in 1990.
I mean, we grew up on Hulk Hogan and Rambo and the very worst sort of jingoism. And sure, there was the pop culture narrative of our teens and twenties of cynical slackers or whatever, but it's the foundational stuff of childhood that sticks with you.
I grew up on all that, too. GI Joe and Red Dawn. I just see it for the jingoistic BS that it always was. What's the excuse of the POS who refuse to see that?
I think we're a bifurcated generation: the preps/jocks and the outcasts: punks, metalheads, goths, hippies, gay kids, D&D nerds, and every kind of weirdo (we all had zines). Guess which ones grew up to be MAGA.
I suppose if you viewed the numbers through a half full glass you might could say that 55% of younger men disapprove of Trump. The other 45% are deeply damaged, but some might recover.
I’ve often thought some Gen X men have issues from being raised by a generation where SAHMs were more the norm, and now resent having partners who are much more likely to have careers. They expected to be catered to like their mama did and that led to some of these attitudes that get passed down.
I'm Gen X and I didn't know any mom who stayed home. Mind you, I grew up in an urban blue collar area, but we were all latch key kids who relied on older siblings and neighbours after school.
I grew up in a more small town environment, and some moms worked. But then families could often live off of one income, and it’s hard to live off of two incomes around here now. Just speaking from personal observations, ymmv.
That's why I said "urban blue collar". Although, my mother's family is rural and my cousin's mothers' all worked too. They were just lucky to have grandparents and other family around to watch them. We urbanites were wild children (just ask my grandparents).
I was a Gen Xer who grew up in a small town and most of the moms I knew worked (including mine). As someone else notes down-thread, we were known as the latchkey generation. Hard to believe with the way things generally are for kids nowadays that I was just left on my own after school every day.
A defining characteristic of Gen X is that SAHMs were not at all the norm but society had not yet developed a robust system of childcare options. Gen X is literally known as “the latchkey generation” and was famously underparented, making them very independent but emotionally disengaged.
I think the lack of equality in the household chores in generation X is to blame. And the same inequality in weekly hours of work in the home and childcare still exists today. The mother is often the one who thinks about new shoes for the children or plan the birthday party etc.?
As a lefty Gen Xer I have wondered if part of the discontent has stemmed from how underrepresented we have been in politics. I remember my Boomer mother being delighted that Obama was the first president who was younger than she was. Though of course that alone can’t account for right-wing voting
As a left-of-left Gen Xer I agree and must point out that Gen X has been underrepresented because our parents’ generations (Silent Gen & Boomers) refuse to give up the power, control, and wealth that they neglected us in childhood to pursue & have since hoarded for 50+ years now.
true, but if we’re blaming leaded gasoline for brain damage with boomers and GenX then covid is fair game. doesn’t make our work of de-programming any easier.
lots of people pin lead on GenXers’ lack of empathy or cognitive ability. not in this thread, but it’s something that’s been going around social media for a long time
Griswold v Connecticut: 1965
Baird v Eisenstadt: 1971
Roe v Wade: 1973
Equal Credit Opportunity Act: 1974
Women's Business Ownership Act: 1988
All of a sudden men weren't legally entitled to the brass economic ring.
Women could control their own bodies & their own money.
Broke men's brains.
Women didn't get or stay happily married in the 50s and 60s.
They had no other choice. They were economically caged.
Now that women can control their own bodies and their own money, they are choosing to be independent.
Which is why the Trump Administration is trying to reverse it.
Men can’t handle that women’s autonomy is more important to us (and should be more important to everyone) than their ability to override that autonomy in the private sphere.
I love this idea, but in my experience I rarely get to meet the kids any time soon, let alone their parents. It would be nice to use the kid's social life to start meeting other adults though!
Gen X has for our entire lives been controlled by Boomers. This led to a disconnect on how things actually run, and a perpetual realization that many Boomer parents are better off than Gen X children. It was also the start of the undereducated populace, so many Gen X are actively ignorant. Plus FB 🤷♂️
The VAST majority of Gen X I know (from all areas: upper MC suburbs, old mill towns, smaller towns) are right wing. It’s remarkable to observe & navigate.
The anger at liberals is palpable, so it’s easy to push towards autocracy & away from liberal democracy, which they can’t even define anyway.
We grew up with Death Wish, Dirty Harry and non-ironic takes on Robocop and Judge Dread. Every piece of media we consumed was 'the system is broken and only a singular big, strong and violent man can save us'. And, well, here we are.
Anecdotal but I remember a conservative friend of mine from college would always default to something like "well that's what my dad thinks" when he was unable to explain his positions
And what message are these I’ll informed men giving to their daughters? And what message are the mothers giving them? My parents were united in their message to their three daughters. You can do anything you want and we expect you to be the very best version and never play the victim card
also can’t ignore that the dads getting radicalized online makes it more likely their kids get radicalized, so kids don’t necessarily need direct exposures on their devices for there to be an effect on them from it
If there's a uniquely male experience of gender being oppressive, it's the experience of having one bunch of people saying you have to be a stereotype of manly, and another bunch pointing out that all the stereotypes are shit people.
The ones trying to force you into being a specific kind of man are trying to deform you into the same twisted shape as they are, where the ones telling you they're shit people are trying to free you from their grasp. It's just hard to see it that way when they're all tugging on you.
Remember, many of the men who've fathered today's destructive turds (young men) were themselves influenced by the economic carveness of 2 Reagan admin's ("Greed is Good"), a socially reactionary ferver, & a lionization of a hawkish military.
gen x, optimization austerity by corporate raiders between the prosperity boomers that never retired and prosperity gen y that got attendance awards, looks like bad promises being milked for maximum populist agreivement
I guess if we want to take something positive away from this, it's that Gen Z overall disapprove of him, unlike the other generations who have males approving of him in general.
It's just so disheartening to see all the older male support for such a disturbed and lawless man.
Gen X sucks but as a millennial I don’t really feel good about the trend in my generation either… what is happening with people that, when they are getting in their 40s, they turn into psychopathic aholes??!
if ur elder millennial like me then you may have had better opinions than your elders (or not), but everyone you knew {siblings, cousins, the grown ups etc} was boomer or GenX. some people just didn’t have enough support to fight the nihilism. that’s why millennials can go either way.
i don’t say any of this to excuse people’s bad opinions, it’s just that it takes a lot of strength, effort, and independence to protect your brain from the nihilism. my parents protested Vietnam War etc so they were different and could support me and we rolled our eyes at GenX doomerism.
It sounds like we’re in the same age group. Growing up, I was always told I’d become more conservative over time. I think I am further to the left today than ever. And I don’t think that’s unusual among our age group.
Just out of curiosity, can I ask if you’re a younger gen X person? I think these differences in generations get fuzzier at the edges, which makes sense to me. Regardless I’m glad that’s been your experience too!
imho it’s all about what kind of boomer parent you had. Did you have an ex-hippie who put you in front of Mr. Rogers, or did you have a furious bigot there filling your head about everything “stolen” from you in the 60s. Rural and southern had a lot of the latter off the radar.
I mean, maybe. But let’s not forget that the majority of the oldest Gen Xers voted for Reagan and Bush Sr. when they were in their late teens and early 20s. It’s still possible that Gen X is simply more conservative than Millennials. But we’ll see.
Gen X has the 2nd highest approval gap by gender, & the difference of approval between Millennial women (40%) & Gen X women (43%) is within the poll's margin of error (2.2%). A man of any age is more likely to approve than a Gen X woman is. So maybe it's men that suck. 🤷
Most white GenX were apolitical and only liked mainstream culture in the 80s and 90s. The ones who were left politically or alternative were exceptions but the most interesting and gave GenX its reputation.
After 9/11, boring, conservative, white GenX was activated.
It's pretty normal (at least since I've been around - I'm 55).
They used to call it a mid-life crisis - Dudes would buy a sports car and start cheating on their wives. Basically they weren't happy with where they ended up and will fixate on somebody or something else as the reason.
People turn conservative as they age, but millennials are well known to be, when you adjust for age, further to the left than previous generations. What you're observing is probably because you spend time with psychopathic assholes and not because it's a general trend among millennials.
The numbers suggest so. As someone else said there’s likely a connection. I talk to the 2 young men in my house a lot about this stuff - not just what they think but what they’re exposed to, which is interesting. I suspect low information voting is a factor in both groups and that’s not going away
Yeah, I am very worried for the young men. I think the algorithms that many see are radicalizing them. Many men get more conservative as they age so the fact that zoomers are already like this is pretty frightening.
On a fairly unrelated subject: the epidemic of spitting among men disgusts me. I watched a guy spit 3 times in 2 minutes tonight. Neither of my grandfathers nor my father ever spat, and I feel certain all the spitters' dads were inveterate spitters.
I know nothing is more fascinating to the world than the feelings of men, but well done to the young women for ignoring dad and taking their own view on things.
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Young women = the group that the patriarchs most want to control and use for breeding.
It figures.
If you think you're one of the good guys, then start actively facing down the bad guys or you're the problem, too.
If they are part of your family, disown them. These assholes live lives with no consequences. We need to give them some.
Unless, of course, today's resegregation movement
successfully whittles down all competition...🤷🏻♂️
Retirement allows them to rediscover human empathy. It's why so many old folks show up at marches & such.
Most of them probably missed the scene for the past 40 years when they were competing w/ "the other" for dollars.
IMO all by design, btw.✌🏻
I guess it's just our turn now.
Ever will it be, I guess. But I had really hoped we'd be different.
They can't deny their impotence now. They see it everyday. They feel irrelevant (although that's just the feeling of occasional absence of their ubiquitous privilege)
GenX men are not the men they used to be and they're hella mad about it
It's about human value, and we've all been taught who's valued in this country. To not live up to our own expectations is a tough blow, so they vote to hurt others to feel better AND improve their prospects & standing.✌🏻
it was surreal
I had assumed my classmates would have matured and evolved but they were just like our parents at that age. Like time stood still in these conservative towns
We need a program designed to find a couple million more, defeat them at the ballot box, then get to work evolving before the aliens show up.✌🏻
Some women make do with this; others can’t
https://bsky.app/profile/sigreign.bsky.social/post/3lobgba77tc2h
Young women are just way left of everyone on these issues and moving faster than anyone really has come to terms with.
It's a common talking point in hard-line religious circles
I thought we were better.
https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/25919720-nbc-news-stay-tuned-poll-april-25/#document/p14
Did the survey oversample Gen Jonesers in the cohort, meaning Gen X men aren't quite as shitty as the survey suggests? We have no idea!
Solid work, NBC. Really great.
(TBH - I'm usually all for the shit-stirring with generational stereotypes. It just bugs me when people do it so sloppily, like I've been seeing around this survey.)
why not ask what is making young women (the clear outliers here) so much more liberal than everyone else?
Ugh.
(Sorry about your Gen. Mine invented school shootings so "bringing Nazis back" doesn't feel significantly worse.)
How did so many of us, especially the guys, get so stupid?
Definitely frustrating to see this.
And as a millennial son of boomer parents, a lot of boomers were hippies at one point. Gen X seemed disaffected from jump.
The X split is women who saw US culture get progressively more accurate about women as they grew into adulthood, and men whose ideal man peaked in 1990.
https://bsky.app/profile/davidnir.com/post/3lof3jshr222v
Baird v Eisenstadt: 1971
Roe v Wade: 1973
Equal Credit Opportunity Act: 1974
Women's Business Ownership Act: 1988
All of a sudden men weren't legally entitled to the brass economic ring.
Women could control their own bodies & their own money.
Broke men's brains.
They had no other choice. They were economically caged.
Now that women can control their own bodies and their own money, they are choosing to be independent.
Which is why the Trump Administration is trying to reverse it.
The anger at liberals is palpable, so it’s easy to push towards autocracy & away from liberal democracy, which they can’t even define anyway.
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Johnson, Thune,
202-224-3121
Tell them to remove Trump by impeachment or treason charges.
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It's just so disheartening to see all the older male support for such a disturbed and lawless man.
Maybe there's a connection.
Shit. Now I worry about my husband and I (geriatric millennials with a home).
Oof, I made it, now I can pull up the ladder so others can't follow me. "Eh, I got there all by myself, bunch of lazy brats!"
Hoping we're better.
We've been fucked up, down, and sideways.
After 9/11, boring, conservative, white GenX was activated.
So I understand your fears.
However, it does seem that millennials are swinging right soooo much less than GenXers.
They used to call it a mid-life crisis - Dudes would buy a sports car and start cheating on their wives. Basically they weren't happy with where they ended up and will fixate on somebody or something else as the reason.
Also - a lot of them were probably always assholes and now it's ok for them to act like assholes in public.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOJ-YEwIwZY
FIFY.
The women are smarter —
Smarter than the men in every way!