TRANS JOY THREAD! What are some recent gender wins & moments of euphoria you’ve experienced?
This thread is open to all Trans & Enby folx!
This thread is open to all Trans & Enby folx!
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also electrolysis is going really well. i’ve been hyper focusing on upper lip & it is so nice to have that increasingly clear!
feel free to message if you’ve got any questions about the recovery or whatever since i just went through it
I'm gonna DM you a question about it
(Happy for you)
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1. They are doing something hurtful, and that makes people hurt. I don't like that.
2. They are Incorrect Being incorrect is wrong, shouldn't be incorrect, they should be Correct. STOP being WRONG!!!!
2 is awesome because he's correcting people who are factually wrong about an *objective fact*. that's just generally how certain my autism (at least) requires me to be before I can correct someone.
I’ve been on HRT 8 months, but I have really bad anxiety so have been boymoding.
So far, so good today. 🥰
also a friend I've known since the $beforeTimes that I hadn't seen in a year said I'd changed a lot ^~^
also people more frequently telling me i'm hot
Still waiting to hear back, but that was still a pretty big step
Boss was like *sharp inhale* "... I put the envelope upside down because it has your deadname on it" She was pissed on my behalf (she has no control over what payroll puts on the label.)
Feels more like "trans contentment" than "joy" but it's still really nice!
https://bsky.app/profile/toebeans.bsky.social/post/3lcjcghcv542n
we count those.
also I dyed my hair and I love it so much. I'm halfway through hair removal for SRS and even though that feels incredibly awkward it'd also v worth it
Being loved, accepted, and celebrated from every side with a houseful of queer friends laughing and joyously loving on eachother was incredible.
It was so wonderful!
- Finished recovery from bottom surgery
- Got top surgery
- Survived a serious life threatening illness (and got a cool scar)
- Nearly concluded a long round of EMDR accompanied by Meditation and now feel that dysphoria for the most part is a thing of the past for me.
Many wins!
“miss your ear pain is clearly caused by your mysterious lack of uterus! we must get you a transplant at once!”
I have a great ass too.
https://bsky.app/profile/abigiles21.bsky.social/post/3lc6i6fic2c2v
She was SO EXCITED about a dessert I brought to Friendsgiving she was running around going "HE MADE THIS?" She was super sweet about it and I texted her the recipe earlier this week.
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I would like that hand to be less grabby & grubby tho
he furrows his brow for a sec, glances back up at me. then the id…then makes a tiny “not bad” face/nod to himself before looking up 😂
and then he picked right back up where we’d been talking before. a+ interaction
Still need to lose weight but this feels like my body for the first time ever.
Starting to find a sort of style of my own slowly (spouse says "great aunt") and some ideas on how I want to handle brows/makeup just need to get to actually trying.
And I'm not the one reminding them!!! They've been doing it themselves!!!
That's nice...
Honestly, there are other things but I'm zombie mode today...
Maybe I'll go hang (online) with Ollie...
I picked up a jacket at the store the other day, and I was a little worried that it looked "Too masculine" on me. It has since become a favorite, and a constant confidence source
also literally just this outfit i wore on Monday if im gonna be vain and cunty 💅😝
slowly but surely building a craplook instead of just spinning a wheel 🥹
I’ve gotten a bunch of new femme cloths for winter so I can still look cute when it’s 10 degrees out.
And I’ve been going on a bunch of dates with cute girls/enbys. 😊
And at friendsgiving multiple people said my makeup looks good
And after almost two weeks off, I get to go back and work on my hella trans play tonight
Also, everyone at work uses my pronouns now. 💜
Anything that makes you feel good and right, and when you look in the mirror, you go *YES!*.
never once got misgendered irl when reaching 4 months, regardless of if i talk or not too 💪🏳️⚧️
Radical change.
You've the wisdom of years, and the opportunity of youth. Remade.
Young, while old.
*Jiggle physics on*
Now I am getting some godly hips so it's even better
I could never be to be a good son, a great man, a husband, a father or patriarch of any description.. but if I should be so fortunate what I could/will be is a good wife and loving caregiver.
So. Yay
Also seeing my partner go through that process on her end, @ateliercolette.bsky.social gets cuter every day! 🙂
"..unless this is a genderfluid plural icon.." and was like "Ayyyy, is he talking about You?"
The whole thing went great.
yesterday i threw on a new sweater, and it was so cute that it lifted me out of the funk i'd been struggling with all week
My FFS consult should also be getting pushed from June next year to sometime in the next month or two, which is a relief.
Confessed my feelings to a friend and it worked out pretty well.
A friend of mine is putting together a fund to get me a good wig.
Able to access my emotions a lot better, and cry when I need to. (Sometimes...The T dampening your emotions can often be "trauma".)
After a year of being in a mentorship program, I finally got the nerve to ask my teacher and classmates to use my they/them pronouns. My mentor actually asked if I was open to answering questions about it, and at the end she kindly shared she related
My roommate just got her name officially changed today.
Nothing but trans joy in this house.
there is still time
THE GOVERNMENT PRESSED F TO PAY MY GENDER RESPECT.
In my case I'm preeeeetty sure there was a transphobic clerk that originally got my request.
Regardless of whether she was or not, according to the girlie who approved me she no longer works there. 💅
I'm not, but it's so much better than what I usually get!
Came out to my friends on Monday, they are overwhelming me with love and support
Came out to my bosses at my job, they are working on doing everything they can to accommodate and support me
Everything's going to be ok❤️
For CONTEXT I also was previously fixing my fridge "unit fan" and very dirty.
get a girl who can do both I guess?
Also when i legally changed my name and gender and stopped having to explain shit to public officers just to get treated right
She got a thank you and a high five and made a grown woman happy cry for a while.
I'm super happy for you!
And then FFS on friday. Hooboy.