I think the OHSU gender affirmation surgery unit (pls excuse me if I get the name wrong) did a study on regret and found that out of 1989 cases of GAS, a whopping SIX PEOPLE transitioned back to their sex assigned at birth. SIX OUT OF ONE THOUSAND NINE HUNDRED EIGHTY-NINE PEOPLE.
Thank you for your confirmation that one very small number is much smaller than another very small yet slightly larger number. Is there any other experience in the world which has a 99.5% approval rating? I mean not even sex has this high of an approval rating.
Of the many parents I have encountered I have only run into a handful that see the joys of parenthood as joys and not burdens. Lots of parents that share love of course but not many get proper fulfillment from the task.
and a non zero amt of trans "regret" are people who were not binary m/f transitioning to the other before realizing their expression was more genderqueer and still having dysphoria, not people who are not trans - i'd wager it's less than 1%
also "regret" in a more self conscious social way, like they want to transition and it would theoretically be better for them but it would externally be a nightmare due to transphobia
this is most of the regret, and is why i kind of dislike the regret rate figure, because people can regret transitioning for multiple reasons, only a tiny fraction genuinely detrans because they arent and were never trans/genderqueer in any way
Also also some of that statistic "regret" the specifics of their treatment, like having surgery before current best practices were in place and not getting the results they were hoping for, getting complications etc.
i'm in this post and i don't like it. at first i was mtf, then simply detransitioned to male before realizing things were far more complex than one or the other for me. i'm comfortably non-binary now, and i'm actually considering getting back on estrogen but from a completely different angle
some regret is also just complications that can happen at any surgery.
and Important, regretting a specific surgery does not equal regretting transition.
I was about to say this. Some parents will hold that regret to themselves because they know that It'd fuck up their kids. So all this says is 10% of parents are real assholes.
I'd be curious of that 1%, how many go back to their "assigned at birth gender" or gender neutral.
Wouldn't be surprised if it's mostly women who refuse to admit it. There's a lot of shame in admitting maybe you shouldn't have had kids or that you regret it, esp w/ the expectation that women "should" be having them. Shatters the vision of motherhood that gets propped up when you do regret it. /:
Personal regret should mean very little in a supposedly free society. People should have the freedom to make decisions they might regret later on. That shit is like the cornerstone of autonomy and personal agency.
No, ppl like you love to scream it so it wasn’t hard. 😂
Even if you all can’t see the indoctrinated ones are yourselves and the majority are nothing like you. Nice try though. Morons like you will never get under my skin. 🤣
Worship of the written word is a pillar of white supremacy. On top of that, correcting someone’s typo while being too inept to proof read your own correction is a level of dipshittery I can only aspire to.
10% is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too low.
My argument has always been that in order to tackle rampant teen pregnancies and STIs that sex education became not just the norm but a requirement, so i don't really understand why we don't teach kids that gender is a spectrum and wherever you fall on it is okay
I will not validate these perverts breeding fetish. You can do that in the comfort of your own home but out in the streets get that shit put of my face. Fucking breeders and their crotchgoblins have to make everything about them.
The government should ask men if they want to have children. If they hesitated for half a second, they should be put to sleep with ether in a rag to wake up with a vasectomy.
My late wife and I decided not to have children as we were living a pretty dangerous life style that neither of us wanted to give up (professional mountaineers/sailors). I'm now on the ass end of my 50's and I'm STILL SO GLAD WE DECIDED NOT TO HAVE THEM.
In 1973, at age 19 I had a tubal ligation. I was unmarried and had no kids. I was forced to see 3 psychiatrists to prove I wasn’t crazy. BTW, this wasn’t backwoods it was a major city in California. 52 yrs later and I’ve never regretted it for a second.
I'm shocked they gave it to you. I never wanted children and actually had fibroids, causing so much that finally, in my 40s, they gave me a hysterectomy.
Sure, denying biology is mental illness. If only it was trans people doing it and not the current political party making baseless claims and definitions...
It is a mental health problem that is trying to be solved by letting these people butcher their bodies. We are going about this all wrong, and then we wonder why the suicide rate is so high for these people.
But I am sure I will be attacked because I don't tow the party line on this topic.
It isn’t your decision to make. People are allowed to live their lives and should feel comfortable in their own skins. Believe me, I have my own opinions on the subject.
But being trans isn’t a mental health problem, being hateful is.
Letting people butcher themselves should be society's concern. These people need mental help, not letting some butcher of a doctor get his hands on them.
I would rather let a trained doctor who’s spent nearly a decade in saving and improving lives cut me open than a society that deems being different a mental health issue.
Society shouldn’t dictate every aspect of a person’s life.
When I was in Highschool the popular thing for girls was to get pregnant and drop out. Now I just look at all the TRASH running around here and pray that "God" knocks this Rock out of the Cosmos. And my prayers go unanswered...
Offering a reframe here: a majority of teenage pregnancies are caused by men much older than them, i.e., statutory rape. The girls didn't have a choice in becoming pregnant, and in many ways our society forces them to have the child when they are barely out of high school. Now that shit is gross.
i didn't take their statement as blaming the girls but this is also true. i grew up poor & watched my poor cousins trapped in poverty forever--lack of access to info/BC back then, stigmatization of using BC or even considering an abortion. shit jobs, 🏫 out of reach, prey to a series of awful men.
I hate that I have to deal with toddlers running loose and yelling around me, while their parents quietly try to reason with them. “Corduroy, you have to use your inside voice or I’m going to very disappointed in you.” Jerks.
Speaking as a straight person who does want to have kids someday, we aren't at a point where humanity is in any kind of danger when it comes to population. White supremacists want just white people in the US. That's a problem for them because of how diverse this country is.
You’re a man, women face way more pressure to have kids. I’ve had several people try to convince me “why not just have one and see if you enjoy motherhood”, or act like it’s some biological duty and there’s something wrong with me not being maternal.
I think the message that having children is a choice, and not a mandatory stage of life, needs to be presented as much as the message of having kids. I respect the choice to have kids as long as my right to be childfree is respected, but that isn’t as common. I feel bad for the kids who’re resented.
It's worse than that, fascism encourages reckless breeding. Many christians love to talk about their "full quiver" when discussing their offspring. They treat them like possessions, foregone conclusions. "We had you to be christian soldiers. If you're not, you're nothing." I'm nothing to my parents.
I know. But for every Duggar family there’s another where the kids rebel, a natural reaction for an intelligent child growing up in a rigid christian environment. I share your concern, but love my friends and others who broke away. I hope there will be more.
As one of those kids, when I came out to my parents as trans, I became nothing to them.
Or at least definitely to my father. I can't tell how my mother feels, if I'm nothing to her also, or if she's being a 'dutiful wife' and being my old man's 'yes man'
The anger towards trans people and childless women, at least for the religous, is rooted in a form of anti-feminist authoritarian theology which REQUIRES strict gender hierarchy to justify the religious heirachy. If gender is a construct the theology falls apart, no more tithes for reverend asshole.
^This too. I just am thinking a fraction of them legitimately hate being parents and hate their kids and either push it down or just lash out at others as a result
We need to ban all books and media that contain pro-parenting propaganda in order to protect children from the social contagion! It's our First Amendment right to have children never hear ideas we don't like!
In a survey performed in 2017 that used data from 1972 onwards, it was observed that there was a decrease in suicide rates in FtM trans folks and very little change in suicide rates for MtF trans folks. See attached journal: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7317390/
They noted that the suicide rates are-
-(when compared to the general populus) still very high with said suicide rates occurring at any stage during their transition. The data seems to vary by country but in their discussion section, they posit that a decrease in trans suicides seen in the Netherlands could be the result of a shifting-
-"societal position [that] may have effect on the psychological functioning and the prevention of suicidal risk in trans women." It should be noted that the decrease in suicide rates among trans people in the Netherlands was seen in the trans women population. However, what I still find to be-
-most alarming is that the rate in which suicidal ideation occurs as suggested in the attached journal: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6798808/
-suggests that 46.55% of trans folks experience suicidal ideation and 27.19% attempted suicide. This begs the question of whether or not GAS helps the patient.
It would seem, according to this team's data, (see attached) that there was a statistically significant difference before and after GAS. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10027312/
If this is the case what is the cause of these suicide rates and how can medicine improve to decrease these rates?
If the breeders want to spawn, I don’t have a problem with it. I have friends who are breeders. As long as they just keep their lifestyles away from me.
Here’s the thing, it’s not that we hate kids, some of them well let’s just say we feel a need to invite them, then there are the good ones which we enjoy for a short time and then we leave and go our way. Not all children are cute, not all babies are beautiful. All children are Petri dishes.
Kids and boogers and ear wax and crusty mouths 🤢 and them there is the kid covered in mud and that’s the kid I want to hang out with. We get to pick the kids we like, we get to spend the money we save on vacations and homes an kids we like. Hey I even do Disney childless and you must try it.
So feel free to bash me because you had children and I didn’t, you won’t hurt my feelings I will just know your jelly. To each their own. Booger free house here!
My own mother told me she regrets all of my siblings. I’m sure she says the same about me to them. She is the reason I didn’t become a mother. She made it seem like a horrific role. 42, child free and don’t regret it.
They need to ban breast augmentation surgery. The regret rate for that is over 5%. Using TERF logic they suffer from a mental illness and should have therapy not medical intervention.
Ugh they're always putting it in your face too. Diaper changing stations in the restrooms? What's next? Television shows aimed at just children? "Family" restaurants?
Most of these I'm with you on but I doubt more than 1% of people regret a taco bell taco. it's not even expensive. even if it sucks that's okay it didn't matter.
This guys clearly never absolutely demolished a public restroom due to the sheer negligence and evil they put into those tacos. I’m sure any product of taco bell’s has a higher regret rate than one would imagine. But sadly we are gluttons for the bell and will gamble our bowels away for that taco.
I see it more as a targeted attack on us weak-stomached people. We are being killed off one by one so only the strongest may prevail. That is the only logical explanation for what taco bell can do to me.
bro people are always talking about evil Taco Bell but I love their burritos and have no problem 😭 (unless I’m already having all the problems so I just don’t notice the difference when I add the Bell)
I have every problems. But if everyone who nuked a bathroom after taco bell did it because of a medical issue it’d be tough to break to like 1/3 of the amarican populace lol
Why have kids when we’re constantly battling for their safety, their right to clean water, air and food, their education. I’m terrified for my boys right now. I know I’ll never be able to see my grand children. This won’t be a sustainable planet for long.
same same. it's important to remind people that kids are little humans and not dollies and that they will piss you off from the first minute on too. some people see them as weird accessories which is horrible for the kids
I didn't know what to expect in terms of sleeping. I assumed no sleep would be had. One of my daughters wasn't colic but would scream uncontrollably every evening for 1 - 10 minutes seemed like hours from 4-6 months old. She still has big feelings at 4 but she also is extremely loving/caring.
My wife found the sleep training course when my kids were 1-2 months old & were sleep trained by 3 months. Probably saved us from going insane or even getting divorced. Couldn't recommend it enough. https://takingcarababies.com/
100% My kids are 4 & from the moment we brought them home everything changed. Your free time is when they sleep & that's usually taken up cleaning or other errands. They are independent thinkers.
My wife did the https://takingcarababies.com/ & had them sleep trained a couple days before she had to go back to work. There are bumps here & there but my kids have never not slept throughout the entire night. Couple screams at midnight but always back to sleep.
This is exactly why I hate when people give their kids weird names, or weird spellings of regular names. I've seen way too many people treat their kid's name like it's an accessory. Just give them a normal, reasonable name.
i mean, if you date someone with a kid and you don't care about their family, you're kind of an asshole though. just date someone with no kids instead of being rude or dismissive?
I keep telling people you are just breeding the slave race for the use of the bourgeoisie. Sure it is worrying if fertility rate drops faster than automation picks up pace but I am just not willing to participate
Yea, shit like this is why Trump won. Why can't we leave the gross, antagonistic shit to the conservatives? How many times are you going to lose the "us v/s them" war before you realize our strength lies in empathy and compassion, not trying to act like them.
Works great, yes. And those ghouls literally want to kill you, show some love for yourself. They deserve every bad thing you can give them. And the democrats were too weak to give them the hate they deserve.
Unfortunately bullies-magats don’t respond to kindness. And I no longer respond to being walked on by people who want to “own the libs.” I’m not a mean person at my core, but I am intolerant of people who are selfish, racist, misogynistic, and cruel. I’ve turned the other cheek and got nowhere.
Wow this just made me think, I have zero trans friends that regret transitioning but everyone I know with children constantly complain about their children. Heck my brothers kids won't even talk to him. That really hit.
If you are a kid and you are interested in gender affirming care just know there are people who don’t know you but they love and support you. I want everyone to be and feel safe and right in their own selves. We love you we support you be who you are.
I’ve never had a trans person try to convince me to transition, but I’ve had a lot of parents tell me I’m going to regret my choice to be childfree when I’m older.
Same. I spent most of my adult life telling people to keep their minds off my sex life. Once you point out that's what they're doing, they back off...for awhile. Unless the "they" that's harassing you about not having children is your mother. :P
I would try that, but she's gone now, passed the autumn before Covid hit. I'm finally starting to erase some of those parent tapes she imprinted in my head.
And if you have one child, they always wanna know when you’re having the second child. It never stops. And it’s really weird because strangers will do it too. Like, “Louise that’s none of your business.”
it’s effectively asking people when they’re going to start having unprotected sex lol. such a wildly strange thing to just ask people, let alone the added factor of how personal and private choosing to have a child is. never had a trans person ask me whether im going to have bottom surgery.
what makes you think calling me a cat mom is an insult when… that’s obviously what i want from life? like could you not have done better than that? was that all you have?
This is exactly why I got off Facebook. The trans bigots use the same language when talking about trans rights. I basically threw in the towel there, because there are better people than me thay have the strength to push against them.
The more something is pushed, the more it’s resisted by the kids. In turn, this is countering the bourgeoisie’s goal of a birthing an even easier to manipulate generation.
Knee surgery sucks, often fails, and requires so much PT afterwards. At least with transitioning you get a cool new set of genitals to whip out at inappropriate moments. Who doesn't love that?
hey do
are you
Are you doing that. Should we have you on a list? Why is the first thing you think of when thinking about trans people sexual in nature? And illegal. I think it's silly to think of bodies as PURELY a sexual thing.
Yeah it's a joke. My experience of being queer has been a near constant barrage of being told I'm a sexual predator just for existing. Maybe it was a little too obtuse for this medium of text posting.
Oooh, sorry!! Im bad about tone!! I didn't realize!! Sorry for the misunderstanding, I'm like really bad about tone over text, it's a thing I am working on. I am so sorry oml
You seem very cool
thank you for explaining in a civil manner
If your reasoning for having a child was other than being a mother then you get whatever comes with that decision. The only reason to have a child should be to be a mother. Not to give a guy a baby. Not to give mom and dad grandchildren. Not for child support and definitely to keep a guy.
If you are swallowing I don’t think you can get pregnant. But perhaps I should wait until trump being an expert in biology and human sexuality chimes in. I hear he knows a thing or two about rape also, but that’s for his next tantrum.
Oh it's more than 10%. As a women without children I've had so many of my friends and family confide in me that they lovetheir kids but if they could go back they wouldn't have any.
Transitioning to a child-focused lifestyle is an irreversible, unnatural choice. It’s disgusting how they shoehorn their politics the media THEY own. I see families in movies all the time like they’re just everywhere in real life 🙄Those freaks don’t deserve any rights. Children are a choice!
Being trans isn't a fad. Trans people have existed since the dawn of human history. The most recent studies about the regret rate for gender affirming care is from early 2024. The regret rate is 1%. Lower then ALL elective medical procedures
Thanks. However just 2 sentences into text, it’s obvious from the language used how totally overtaken by activists this organisation is. I’ll try and find independent research https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9341318/
The gender affirming treatment regret rate is largely a matter of people experiencing harassment or no longer having the means to continue treatment. It’s often people who wouldn’t regret it under better circumstances. Very little is due to people reconsidering the need for treatment.
You're saying it like a joke but there are actual people who think this exact thing. The entire antinatalism movement is predicated on the fact that they wish they werent born, so they claim no one should be just in case the kid ends up like them
Not all antinatalists wish they weren't born (although many do). There are people who think "I was lucky to end up with a good life, but since not everyone does, it's immoral to create new people."
Yep, and the consequences of screwed up childhood are permanent and carry on throughout generations.
I was very uncomfortable when during COVID my coworkers would complain about spending time with their kids, like "bitch, why you had them?". I felt very bad for their kids.
And the "you don't understand because you don't have kids". Nah, love. I don't have kids because I comprehend how much safety, responsibility, patience and love it requires. Things that I know I can't give them.
There are people out there who are wonderful parents and I respect the hell out of them
Actually the number is MUCH higher but most people won't admit they regret their kids. But if you go to reddit, where people pay anonymously, you'd see just how many people regret having kids.
Well neither side has many rights currently, unless you're someone that wants a big family and aren't afraid of complications. So unfortunately it is the bigger topic
Hi, I'm a parent. The number is much higher than that. If I had to guess, I'd say somewhere between 40-70% regret having children, and in many instances, they are fantastic parents who love their kids.
There is nothing that can prepare you for that level of sacrifice.
I am always trying to tell people that if you aren’t completely okay with not sleeping for a year and you’re sensitive to being disliked, you should not have kids.
This! Thank you! I have twins and I swear the first year was a living hell. I love them I really do. They’re wonderful humans but I’m so happy that they’re almost 13 years old and start to not needing me anymore. It’s so liberating.
I've never had a trans person stick their head under the gap in the toilet stall door and look at me while I'm peeing but I have had two separate children do that.
I had that happen once but it was #2, and have public restroom paranoia to this day
I yelled “hey please get your kid!”, but there wasn’t anyone else there. Just some unsupervised feral sprog crawling around on the filthy pee soaked men’s room floor
God that's so grim. I feel bad for the kid too though, they're gonna grow up not knowing why people avoid them if no one teaches them how to behave in public
A KID DID THAT TO ME WHILE I WAS TRYING ON CLOTHES…. He said something like his mom was waiting for the stall…. Like woman get ur freaky child away from me before I kick and scream 😭
I read it decades ago. I found this, and it's higher at 70%. I don't think this was my original source. The problem is that many people won't even admit it to their therapist.
I tell my children: Don’t have children if you are not sure. And don’t have children if you don’t feel ready. Parenting is one of only two irreversible decisions a person can make. Once a parent, always a parent. I consider it my highest calling and I owe solemn duties to my children, forever
strange, transitioning ruins the rest of your life and sends you directly to hell, while being a parent only ruins your life for 18 years????? someone make it make sense!!!!!!!!
If only 1% regret transitioning, perhaps it makes them happy to be their true self and be more Godly. And if hell exists, it is surely hell never getting to be one’s true self due to you, fellow sinner, damning them there.
Parenting for a disabled child or a troubled adult child never ends.
Wonder how all those 'lower income' breeders are going to feel about their brood when they no longer have SNAP to rely on. I know someone with 7 children, she only works part time, but gets over $2K a month in SNAP and Medicaid. She can not support her family, and he can't work (heart issues).
"In 2020, nearly 400,000 teens in the U.S. between the ages of 13 to 19 had cosmetic surgery. In 2022, 23,527 cosmetic surgery procedures were performed on people aged 19 and under".
Should be higher than 10% many of my own relatives and people I've encountered at work, social groups, etc. tell me they regret having kids but with the same breath ask me why I don't have kids.
these people just shove their sexual preference right in your faces and demand we order society around their lifestyles. we get it, you're straight, want a medal? 🙄
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and Important, regretting a specific surgery does not equal regretting transition.
I'd be curious of that 1%, how many go back to their "assigned at birth gender" or gender neutral.
https://community.babycenter.com/post/a19378235/the_ann_landers_do_you_regret_having_children_survey
1% of people regret their gender affirming treatment.
10% of people regret having children.
sources: regret after gender-affirmation surgery, national library of medicine / US adult sexual behaviors and attitudes study, march 2021
Even if you all can’t see the indoctrinated ones are yourselves and the majority are nothing like you. Nice try though. Morons like you will never get under my skin. 🤣
Worship of the written word is a pillar of white supremacy. On top of that, correcting someone’s typo while being too inept to proof read your own correction is a level of dipshittery I can only aspire to.
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First it's "when you getting married?"
Then "when are you having children"
How about you do you, and we focus on that...
I’m not kid safe.
Apparently there is so little regret that their suicide rate is SIGNIFICANTLY ELEVATED. How does that make sense?!
It's all mental illness.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11063965/
I see much more public outrage and hate towards trans people compared to parents.
Huge difference.
Imagine being hated and discriminated against 24/7 because you’re different.
No wonder suicide rates are so high. It’s truly heartbreaking…
But I am sure I will be attacked because I don't tow the party line on this topic.
But being trans isn’t a mental health problem, being hateful is.
Society shouldn’t dictate every aspect of a person’s life.
shit grosses me out on a core level
/J
Women goes to an OBGynecologist
Transgenders or LGBTQ goes to Paychologist
When’s the last time you had a blowjob you didn’t pay or beg for?
or, "Relax, it's just a joke bro!", if that's got too many big words in it.
People feel it but can't bring themselves to say it out loud. Because children are supposed to be precious and the most important thing in the world.
Or at least definitely to my father. I can't tell how my mother feels, if I'm nothing to her also, or if she's being a 'dutiful wife' and being my old man's 'yes man'
The numbers are crazy
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7317390/
They noted that the suicide rates are-
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6798808/
-suggests that 46.55% of trans folks experience suicidal ideation and 27.19% attempted suicide. This begs the question of whether or not GAS helps the patient.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10027312/
If this is the case what is the cause of these suicide rates and how can medicine improve to decrease these rates?
I again ask though: Why? If the surgery isn't decreasing the frequency of suicide attempts, what else needs to be done to help these people?
"we've been trying for a baby" okay but don't involve the rest of us in your creampie k1nk???
This demographic must be enormous, and have zero sexual context for people to get all judgy.
A computer?
A taco bell taco?
A lamp?
Haircut?
I feel like all of these would outclass the transition regret rate.
https://youtu.be/CpCnliXZcVg?si=QvpTzZOmicrkev-E
i was an insomniac colic baby from the first week on so that did not go as planned.
in the pics of my parents you can see them both age 10 years over the first 6 months of my life.
https://takingcarababies.com/
She struggles with how much I really don't care. Got my vasectomy in my 20's with no kids, zero regrets.
i hope i just read this wrong tbh..
More meat for the meatgrinder. The war machine demands sacrifice.
But you're very wrong, the Democrats should've been much meaner.
They should keep their sick perversions to themselves.
Always demanding special treatment and saying how much you should respect their choices.
Parents. Vile things.
Even worse when they keep saying they're trying for another...
I don't need to know what you're doing in the bedroom.
Some even have a "cover" charge.
Covering for what exactly?
How disgusting they are?
I fucking hate anyone who spouts stats like that.
"But you're the one that asked girl."
They'll talk about their exploits but then get REALLY mad when I do the same.
The funny thing is mine are always WAY tamer.
Why are they trying so hard to cis the kids?
HEy.
HEy. Um
Even if you stand with us, please dont say stuff like that
it has negative connotation
are you
Are you doing that. Should we have you on a list? Why is the first thing you think of when thinking about trans people sexual in nature? And illegal. I think it's silly to think of bodies as PURELY a sexual thing.
You seem very cool
thank you for explaining in a civil manner
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I UNDERSTOOD
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top surgery is tomorrow
And a higher suicide attempt rate after gender affirming surgeries...
There is absolutely no equivalence between that and transitioning. An act to improve your own life.
Gotta drill down to the important numbers.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9341318/
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I was very uncomfortable when during COVID my coworkers would complain about spending time with their kids, like "bitch, why you had them?". I felt very bad for their kids.
There are people out there who are wonderful parents and I respect the hell out of them
I am a father of 3 boys and 8 grandchildren. I already did my part thanks.
As far as your pathetic attempt at humor don't quit your day job at Chipolte.
There is nothing that can prepare you for that level of sacrifice.
-You can have kids, but you should keep that to yourself
-I don't know why parents have to make it their whole personality
-We shouldn't be teaching students about kids in school
I yelled “hey please get your kid!”, but there wasn’t anyone else there. Just some unsupervised feral sprog crawling around on the filthy pee soaked men’s room floor
Both my sister and I were neglected by our mom, but we had nice grandparents she’d foist us off on, so it could have been worse
The best way to stop child abuse is to stop having children.
Half of all pregnancies are unplanned
We've got a lot of miserable people in this country... does this explain MAGA?
Parenting for a disabled child or a troubled adult child never ends.
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They're hypocritical trash
No kids, no regrets.
But at 45, the judgement I get is insane. Like there must be something horribly wrong for someone like me not to breed.
Truth is, I have a brain and I made a choice. It’s so simple, yet very few people understand. It’s so weird to me!